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Free Talk Live => The Polling Pit => Topic started by: CaL DaVe on October 27, 2008, 06:24:06 PM
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I try to be discrete ... I'll get a look at the front side, and wait 2 seconds before I turn around to look at the back side.
But I really want to STARE!! :x
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When I was single I'd stare.
If the woman would get lippy about it, I'd tell her not to look hot if she doesn't want to be looked at and walk away.
You'd be amazed how often they'd call me back over.
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I stare and undress them with my eyes.
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My new office is right next to the beach and a rec trail...I'm getting sick of trying to restrain myself.
Swimmers.
Sun Bathers.
Roller girls.
OH MY!
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My new office is right next to the beach and a rec trail...I'm getting sick of trying to restrain myself.
Swimmers.
Sun Bathers.
Roller girls.
OH MY!
You lucky son of a bitch! :P
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I think the really hot ones are so used to getting looked at, they don't even notice it.
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I don't think you should go around asking anyone to "bare" children for you.
That could get everyone involved brought up on at least state, if not federal, charges.
Childbearing is the appropriate term, but you still shouldn't use it.
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I don't think you should go around asking anyone to "bare" children for you.
That could get everyone involved brought up on at least state, if not federal, charges.
Childbearing is the appropriate term, but you still shouldn't use it.
ok ok I get it. But, I don't know how to fix it....
I was hoping you would drop in here, I wanted to get your opinion (you being an attractive woman), if getting checked out is just a normal, everyday thing for you.
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ok ok I get it. But, I don't know how to fix it....
I was hoping you would drop in here, I wanted to get your opinion (you being an attractive woman), if getting checked out is just a normal, everyday thing for you.
CUE:
HOW YOU DOIN'?
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ok ok I get it. But, I don't know how to fix it....
I was hoping you would drop in here, I wanted to get your opinion (you being an attractive woman), if getting checked out is just a normal, everyday thing for you.
CUE:
HOW YOU DOIN'?
8)
But seriously, I want to know she thinks.
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ok ok I get it. But, I don't know how to fix it....
I was hoping you would drop in here, I wanted to get your opinion (you being an attractive woman), if getting checked out is just a normal, everyday thing for you.
CUE:
HOW YOU DOIN'?
LAWL.
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I stare sometimes. If they the woman says something, I just compliment her hair or her clothes or something.
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I would think a very simple Hi, Hello, or Good Morning/Afternoon, with a smile would be perfect.
That's something that is not at all threatening, or offensive, and is a generally pleasant note in one's day.
If you're not putting out a creepy stalker vibe, you're probably going to get at least a smile and Hi in return.
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I don't think you should go around asking anyone to "bare" children for you.
That could get everyone involved brought up on at least state, if not federal, charges.
Childbearing is the appropriate term, but you still shouldn't use it.
I was hoping you would drop in here, I wanted to get your opinion (you being an attractive woman), if getting checked out is just a normal, everyday thing for you.
Um. Thanks. I don't think I actually get checked out all that often though. Even in my normal geeky engineer/programmer circles, where they do think I'm sort of cute, I quickly become one of the guys - except I'm in a skirt.
It happens in a noticeable way every once in a while. If the guy is friendly, and not an ass about it, I rather like it. Especially if it's on the bike/run path. Getting checked out & receiving smile & wave while spinning along at 16-18 mph (or running a heck of a lot slower than that) is a bit more of a boost than being ogled by the drunk guy at the end of the bar.
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I would think a very simple Hi, Hello, or Good Morning/Afternoon, with a smile would be perfect.
That's something that is not at all threatening, or offensive, and is a generally pleasant note in one's day.
If you're not putting out a creepy stalker vibe, you're probably going to get at least a smile and Hi in return.
Would you respond to a high-five? :lol:
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I stare sometimes.
Lesbian lindsey. :P
Could you to literotica and write us a story or 10?
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I'm too shy to look long enough. Then again I think most females find me repulsive so I try not to even bother looking. >_>
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I would think a very simple Hi, Hello, or Good Morning/Afternoon, with a smile would be perfect.
That's something that is not at all threatening, or offensive, and is a generally pleasant note in one's day.
If you're not putting out a creepy stalker vibe, you're probably going to get at least a smile and Hi in return.
Would you respond to a high-five? :lol:
Yes. I have, actually.
A guy I pass regularly on one of my running routes. He usually smiles, nods, says good morning. It's a 3.5 mile trail, so as my runs got longer, we've been passing each other more often. He high-five'd me a couple weeks ago, when we passed each other the fourth time. Once I'm off the easy recovery runs, I'm actually looking forward to our weekly run-bys.
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I stare sometimes.
Lesbian lindsey. :P
Could you to literotica and write us a story or 10?
Well, lots of women like the way other women look. That doesn't make them lesbians. In the past, I have had...experiences...with women, and I do occasionally find myself sexually attracted to them. But I wouldn't go as far as lesbian. I could never have a relationship with a woman...I don't like them as people all that much. :lol:
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My new office is right next to the beach and a rec trail...I'm getting sick of trying to restrain myself.
Swimmers.
Sun Bathers.
Roller girls.
OH MY!
Dude, I live in SD, how do you think I feel? :D
I discreetly check them out, and then stare... at their FACE, and give a non-creepy smile and maybe say hello if she seems receptive. If not I'll try to be a bit alpha-male with my friends. It works well when you're the frat boy type with a motorcycle helmet and a faux-hawk hair cut lol.
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I'm pretty discrete. However, that does not mean that the occasional conversation isn't started, usually at the gym.
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I don't think you should go around asking anyone to "bare" children for you.
That could get everyone involved brought up on at least state, if not federal, charges.
And then he would really be "discrete"!
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Why does everyone keep talking about math?!
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I don't think you should go around asking anyone to "bare" children for you.
That could get everyone involved brought up on at least state, if not federal, charges.
Childbearing is the appropriate term, but you still shouldn't use it.
I was hoping you would drop in here, I wanted to get your opinion (you being an attractive woman), if getting checked out is just a normal, everyday thing for you.
Um. Thanks. I don't think I actually get checked out all that often though. Even in my normal geeky engineer/programmer circles, where they do think I'm sort of cute, I quickly become one of the guys - except I'm in a skirt.
It happens in a noticeable way every once in a while. If the guy is friendly, and not an ass about it, I rather like it. Especially if it's on the bike/run path. Getting checked out & receiving smile & wave while spinning along at 16-18 mph (or running a heck of a lot slower than that) is a bit more of a boost than being ogled by the drunk guy at the end of the bar.
Post video. We'll be happy to check you out.
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Post video. We'll be happy to check you out.
No video from the half mary; but my support crew snapped photos on the iPhone.
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I try to be discreet....and I don't go outside much.
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Just a request: If a pretty woman is not smiling, please don't ask her to smile for you.
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Just a request: If a pretty woman is not smiling, please don't ask her to smile for you.
Yeah, kinda comes off as "Faggy" in the non homosexual way. Sort of a pussy thing to say. Not that pickup lines work, of course.
Then again, my wife was introduced to me by a third party who walked up to me with mel in tow and said: "I just want to tell you that I think you're fucking adorable, and I want you to meet my friend, Mel."
That's kinda a pickup line, I guess.
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I launch squirts of hot semen at them from as far as 200 feet away marking them as mine.
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I launch squirts of hot semen at them from as far as 200 feet away marking them as mine.
You should see a doctor about that.
Doesn't shoot far enough hunh? Got to see about expanding the range.
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Was your dad a baker, by any chance?
No. Why?
I'm positive I'm walking in to something horrible here... :lol:
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Was your dad a baker, by any chance?
No. Why?
I'm positive I'm walking in to something horrible here... :lol:
Because you've got fantastic buns. :wink:
You ever get drunk enough to actually say that to anyone?
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Was your dad a baker, by any chance?
No. Why?
I'm positive I'm walking in to something horrible here... :lol:
Because you've got fantastic buns. :wink:
You ever get drunk enough to actually say that to anyone?
Actually, I've used that line when sober...
On a male or female?
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Was your dad a baker, by any chance?
No. Why?
I'm positive I'm walking in to something horrible here... :lol:
Because you've got fantastic buns. :wink:
You ever get drunk enough to actually say that to anyone?
Actually, I've used that line when sober...
Oh God. What was the outcome? :lol:
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Smoothness. Did you end up fucking her hard in the back seat of your cah?
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When I was single I'd stare.
If the woman would get lippy about it, I'd tell her not to look hot if she doesn't want to be looked at and walk away.
You'd be amazed how often they'd call me back over.
it am going to try this
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When I was single I'd stare.
If the woman would get lippy about it, I'd tell her not to look hot if she doesn't want to be looked at and walk away.
You'd be amazed how often they'd call me back over.
it am going to try this
Lol, let me know how that works out for you. I've never seen it go well with friends and just other women I observe, but it's never happened to me so I don't have a personal account.
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Lol, let me know how that works out for you. I've never seen it go well with friends and just other women I observe, but it's never happened to me so I don't have a personal account.
You need a certain type of personality to get away with it. I think I've turned an incident like that into a date three or four times over the years. Maybe a 50% success.
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Lol, let me know how that works out for you. I've never seen it go well with friends and just other women I observe, but it's never happened to me so I don't have a personal account.
You need a certain type of personality to get away with it. I think I've turned an incident like that into a date three or four times over the years. Maybe a 50% success.
Not bad. I don't think. :shock:
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I dated a woman for six months after an incident that went something like this:
Her: HAY!
Me: Huh?
Her: Were you staring at my chest?
Me: Sure was.
Her: *Loud sigh* Get a life!
Me: I'm sorry? The boobs distracted me again.
Her: *Laughs*
Us: Conversation leading to sex a few weeks later.
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Damn, it took you a few weeks?! :lol:
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Damn, it took you a few weeks?! :lol:
It always takes a few weeks. When i was single I never had sex until at least a month after I started dating a woman.
Gotta know if they're nuts before you have sex.
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Damn, it took you a few weeks?! :lol:
It always takes a few weeks. When i was single I never had sex until at least a month after I started dating a woman.
Gotta know if they're nuts before you have sex.
Well, I guess you'd find out anyway.
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I don't annoy attractive women. Its sleazy. They get hit on every day in one way or another, or at the very least openly leered at. If anything, I just give them a cursory glance and mind my own business. If they're preoccupied by whatever they're doing, the cursory glance might last a moment longer, but I won't engage them in any kind of eye-catching games. Cold pick-ups are just about impossible, and guys are pretty transparent in their intentions when its attempted.
If they've got something in common by proximity, like standing in line or they ask me to get their gas cap off, or something like that, thats a whole different situation. Or at least, it used to be. Nowadays I just keep to myself.
You know, I've noticed something about myself. When I was a bit younger, I always wanted to be super-hot, and get hit on like other chicks do. But now that I see how annoying it can be...I'm thankful that I'm able to fly under the radar. It's nice to be able to go to the grocery store, or out to browse a book store in the afternoon without being bothered.
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Cold pick-ups are just about impossible, and guys are pretty transparent in their intentions when its attempted.
I dunno, I always had good luck. Of course, my taste in women is a little different. I was never after some woman who was totally out of my league. I did, however, date a couple who were, looks wise. They were invariably a disappointment.
The ones who are really, really knockouts, like, in the getting paid just to look good way, were all fairly useless outside of a group social situation. They weren't dumb, but they just didn't know how to function without several people around all the time, paying them attention.
None of this was a brag or anything. It was always personality who drew beauty to this beast. I could sing birds down from the trees if the day is right. Whenever you see a fat slob walking hand in hand with some righteous babe, you know I was there to give some advice.
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I don't annoy attractive women. Its sleazy. They get hit on every day in one way or another, or at the very least openly leered at. If anything, I just give them a cursory glance and mind my own business. If they're preoccupied by whatever they're doing, the cursory glance might last a moment longer, but I won't engage them in any kind of eye-catching games. Cold pick-ups are just about impossible, and guys are pretty transparent in their intentions when its attempted.
I dated a gal who had really huge boobs (she'd even had breast reduction surgery), and I was absolutely shocked at the way she was treated by other women. Leering and shitty comments--things men generally won't say or do when a woman is with another man. I guess women are so jealous that they feel they have to say petty things. My wife gets some similar treatment from women, but not as much, and not about her boobs. With her, they just seem to feel threatened, leaving a restaurant early, swapping seats with their men (giving them the evil eye), etc.
Pix?
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I don't annoy attractive women. Its sleazy. They get hit on every day in one way or another, or at the very least openly leered at. If anything, I just give them a cursory glance and mind my own business. If they're preoccupied by whatever they're doing, the cursory glance might last a moment longer, but I won't engage them in any kind of eye-catching games. Cold pick-ups are just about impossible, and guys are pretty transparent in their intentions when its attempted.
I dated a gal who had really huge boobs (she'd even had breast reduction surgery), and I was absolutely shocked at the way she was treated by other women. Leering and shitty comments--things men generally won't say or do when a woman is with another man. I guess women are so jealous that they feel they have to say petty things. My wife gets some similar treatment from women, but not as much, and not about her boobs. With her, they just seem to feel threatened, leaving a restaurant early, swapping seats with their men (giving them the evil eye), etc.
I find that I have that issue at work occasionally. Since we have so many locations (three stores in our mall), I've noticed couples shopping, and the women will be like "Come on honey, let's go to the OTHER Sunglass Hut". Two out of the three individuals that work at that store are men, and the manager even calls me up and tells me that the customer said his wife or girlfriend dragged him all the way over there even though he'd already picked out what he wanted. Women just don't like other women - it's the strangest thing. We've had conversations at our manager's meetings about it. Brad (our other store manager) always asks me when something like that happens if I'm covered up or not. I guess we're noticing a pattern. :lol:
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Women just don't like other women
That's as true as "Men just don't like other men."
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Women just don't like other women
That's as true as "Men just don't like other men."
I don't know...women have a higher degree of competition between each other than men do, it seems. Of course it's widely varied. I mean, even with my best friend, I've heard silly things for years. When we were in high school and we'd travel around and sing with the chamber choir, it was always "WHY DO ALL THE PEOPLE HAVE TO COME UP TO YOU AND TELL YOU HOW GREAT YOU ARE?! WHAT ABOUT THE REST OF US?" and a couple of months ago we went out to dinner at Chili's or something, and it was "I CAN'T GET THE WAITER TO PAY ATTENTION TO ME BECAUSE HE'S TOO BUSY LOOKING AT YOU" with me apologizing after for...not doing anything wrong. It's all silly anyway. :lol:
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"I CAN'T GET THE WAITER TO PAY ATTENTION TO ME BECAUSE HE'S TOO BUSY LOOKING AT YOU"
The proper response for maximum points is "I can't help it that you're ugly!"
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"I CAN'T GET THE WAITER TO PAY ATTENTION TO ME BECAUSE HE'S TOO BUSY LOOKING AT YOU"
The proper response for maximum points is "I can't help it that you're ugly!"
I don't remember what my response was. I think I told her she was being ridiculous and that he wasn't looking at more than he was looking at her, or my friend Will - who was also with us at the time. And then I blamed Will, because he happened to be seated next to me at the time.
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I don't annoy attractive women. Its sleazy. They get hit on every day in one way or another, or at the very least openly leered at. If anything, I just give them a cursory glance and mind my own business. If they're preoccupied by whatever they're doing, the cursory glance might last a moment longer, but I won't engage them in any kind of eye-catching games. Cold pick-ups are just about impossible, and guys are pretty transparent in their intentions when its attempted.
I dated a gal who had really huge boobs (she'd even had breast reduction surgery), and I was absolutely shocked at the way she was treated by other women. Leering and shitty comments--things men generally won't say or do when a woman is with another man. I guess women are so jealous that they feel they have to say petty things. My wife gets some similar treatment from women, but not as much, and not about her boobs. With her, they just seem to feel threatened, leaving a restaurant early, swapping seats with their men (giving them the evil eye), etc.
Pix?
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Women just don't like other women
That's as true as "Men just don't like other men."
BULLSHIT!
Eh, women trash on women, men trash on men, women trash on men, men trash on women......that's life. If you don't think that men hate other men, then check the statistics for how many men kill other men in a given year as compared to how many women kill women.
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Okay, Ken, we get it. Either you have an exceedingly short memory and can't even remember what your last post was, or you're a moron who can't come up with an adequate response to new posts and so can do nothing but repeat what you've already said. Thank you.
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Men hate other men for things they do. Women hate other women for being women.
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Wow.
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Men hate other men for things they do. Women hate other women for being women.
When men hate other men and women hate other women, it's generally for the exact same reason-- being competition. The reasons for being competition vary. Women are generally most attractive to men by being beautiful, whereas men are generally most attractive by having high status/resources. That means that men are attracted to women because of what they "are," whereas women are attracted to men because of what they "do." And naturally, those are the reasons that other men and women become jealous, and compete with each other based on whatever the opposite sex tends to want most. So if "women hate other women for being women," it's mens' fault. And vice versa for women. Such has been the course of human evolution over millions of years.
What I'm saying, basically, is that you can't tarnish one gender but not the other, because they have effectively "built" each other. Men are the way they are because of women, and women are the way they are because of men.
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No, it's just that you're a shitty cunt, and I don't feel like explaining myself to you and being cross-examined
You're welcome to leave the conversation then. For the record, though, I never disagreed with you.
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No, it's just that you're a shitty cunt, and I don't feel like explaining myself to you and being cross-examined
You're welcome to leave the conversation then. Seeya.
You don't own the thread, so seeing as you're the cunt, you can fuck off, since you put it that way.
Whatever. I just suggest that you read carefully, and have a beer or something, before you post. I'm not saying what you apparently think I am.
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No, it's just that you're a shitty cunt, and I don't feel like explaining myself to you and being cross-examined
You're welcome to leave the conversation then. Seeya.
You don't own the thread, so seeing as you're the cunt, you can fuck off, since you put it that way.
Whatever. I just suggest that you read carefully, and have a beer or something, before you post. I'm not saying what you apparently think I am.
Oh, is that what you said? It looked a lot more like this:
Okay, Ken, we get it. Either you have an exceedingly short memory and can't even remember what your last post was, or you're a moron who can't come up with an adequate response to new posts and so can do nothing but repeat what you've already said. Thank you.
BTW, maybe I'm not the one who needs the beer (http://bbs.freetalklive.com/index.php?topic=24927.0).
Yes, you both misinterpreted me and are acting like a moron. They're not mutually exclusive.
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Holy shit.
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Just shut the fuck up, bitch. You're like a bad virus that won't die.
Love is in the air
Everywhere I look around
Love is in the air
Every sight and every sound
And I don't know if I'm being foolish
Don't know if I'm being wise
But it's something that I must believe in
And it's there when I look in your eyes
Love is in the air
In the whisper of the trees
Love is in the air
In the thunder of the sea
And I don't know if I'm just dreaming
Don't know if I feel sane
But it's something that I must believe in
And it's there when you call out my name
(Chorus)
Love is in the air
Love is in the air
Oh oh oh
Oh oh oh
Love is in the air
In the rising of the sun
Love is in the air
When the day is nearly done
And I don't know if you're an illusion
Don't know if I see it true
But you're something that I must believe in
And you're there when I reach out for you
Love is in the air
Every sight and every sound
And I don't know if I'm being foolish
Don't know if I'm being wise
But it's something that I must believe in
And it's there when I look in your eyes
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Holy shit.
Was that a response to me or Ken/Rill?
Ken and Rill mostly. This is getting nutty.
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Holy shit.
Was that a response to me or Ken/Rill?
Ken and Rill mostly. This is getting nutty.
Yep. Popcorn?
(http://www.improvresourcecenter.com/mb/images/smilies/popcorn.gif)
Yeah, thanks. :shock:
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Well, I'd say that about sums it up.
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I hope you've learned your place, you inferior beer-fetching fuck-monkey.
Is that, like, a beer-fetching fuck-monkey who fetches the wrong beer? Or they do it too slowly? Or the beer is warm? I train my fuck-monkeys right, so these problems don't arise.
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No, it's just that you're a shitty cunt, and I don't feel like explaining myself to you and being cross-examined
You're welcome to leave the conversation then. Seeya.
You don't own the thread, so seeing as you're the cunt, you can fuck off, since you put it that way.
Whatever. I just suggest that you read carefully, and have a beer or something, before you post. I'm not saying what you apparently think I am.
Oh, is that what you said? It looked a lot more like this:
Okay, Ken, we get it. Either you have an exceedingly short memory and can't even remember what your last post was, or you're a moron who can't come up with an adequate response to new posts and so can do nothing but repeat what you've already said. Thank you.
BTW, maybe I'm not the one who needs the beer (http://bbs.freetalklive.com/index.php?topic=24927.0).
Yes, you both misinterpreted me and are acting like a moron. They're not mutually exclusive.
Just shut the fuck up, bitch. You're like a bad virus that won't die.
This thread has inspired me to amplify. :(
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No, it's just that you're a shitty cunt, and I don't feel like explaining myself to you and being cross-examined
You're welcome to leave the conversation then. Seeya.
You don't own the thread, so seeing as you're the cunt, you can fuck off, since you put it that way.
Whatever. I just suggest that you read carefully, and have a beer or something, before you post. I'm not saying what you apparently think I am.
Oh, is that what you said? It looked a lot more like this:
Okay, Ken, we get it. Either you have an exceedingly short memory and can't even remember what your last post was, or you're a moron who can't come up with an adequate response to new posts and so can do nothing but repeat what you've already said. Thank you.
BTW, maybe I'm not the one who needs the beer (http://bbs.freetalklive.com/index.php?topic=24927.0).
Yes, you both misinterpreted me and are acting like a moron. They're not mutually exclusive.
Just shut the fuck up, bitch. You're like a bad virus that won't die.
This thread has inspired me to amplify. :(
At first I didn't get it. I do now.
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I used to stare, but now I don't. Staring at pretty women now seems to me like daydreaming about winning the lottery. It's depressing and pointless.
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I used to stare, but now I don't. Staring at pretty women now seems to me like daydreaming about winning the lottery. It's depressing and pointless.
That's...lovely. :shock:
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I used to stare, but now I don't. Staring at pretty women now seems to me like daydreaming about winning the lottery. It's depressing and pointless.
That's...lovely. :shock:
When life becomes that depressing, I would stop taking the insulin.
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I used to stare, but now I don't. Staring at pretty women now seems to me like daydreaming about winning the lottery. It's depressing and pointless.
That's...lovely. :shock:
When life becomes that depressing, I would stop taking the insulin.
LMAO. Even I don't feel that way anymore. I look at it this way - even if I can't have them, I can still have the pleasure of looking. :P
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I used to stare, but now I don't. Staring at pretty women now seems to me like daydreaming about winning the lottery. It's depressing and pointless.
That's...lovely. :shock:
When life becomes that depressing, I would stop taking the insulin.
Who said my life is depressing? My life is quite happy, and partly because I don't waste my time longing after things I can't have.
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I used to stare, but now I don't. Staring at pretty women now seems to me like daydreaming about winning the lottery. It's depressing and pointless.
That's...lovely. :shock:
When life becomes that depressing, I would stop taking the insulin.
Who said my life is depressing? My life is quite happy, and partly because I don't waste my time longing after things I can't have.
You could easily have a pretty girl!
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You could easily have a pretty girl!
Not where I live, as I've mentioned. Women my age with whom I have common ground are a very, very scarce resource in Western PA. But I'll be getting out of this place eventually.
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You could easily have a pretty girl!
Not where I live, as I've mentioned. Women my age with whom I have common ground are a very, very scarce resource in Western PA. But I'll be getting out of this place eventually.
There HAS to be some! It's statistically impossible!
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You could easily have a pretty girl!
Not where I live, as I've mentioned. Women my age with whom I have common ground are a very, very scarce resource in Western PA. But I'll be getting out of this place eventually.
There HAS to be some! It's statistically impossible!
Improbable. But the probability of me not having met one yet is, apparently, exactly 1.
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You could easily have a pretty girl!
Not where I live, as I've mentioned. Women my age with whom I have common ground are a very, very scarce resource in Western PA. But I'll be getting out of this place eventually.
There HAS to be some! It's statistically impossible!
Improbable. But the probability of me not having met one yet is, apparently, exactly 1.
Oy. Don't make me fix you up. Either you find a woman or I'm sending Jay. :lol:
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Don't make me fix you up.
Bleq. That never works. Someone I know is trying to hook me up with a girl already, with whom I have NOTHING in common. And I don't find her the least bit physically attractive either.
Of course, given her (my friend's) history as a would-be matchmaker and her crowd of friends, I'm sure anything you do would be a better job. >_>
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Don't make me fix you up.
Bleq. That never works. Someone I know is trying to hook me up with a girl already, with whom I have NOTHING in common. And I don't find her the least bit physically attractive either.
Of course, given her (my friend's) history as a would-be matchmaker and her crowd of friends, I'm sure anything you do would be a better job. >_>
Now you've done it. I'm booking Jay's flight right now.
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Don't make me fix you up.
Bleq. That never works. Someone I know is trying to hook me up with a girl already, with whom I have NOTHING in common. And I don't find her the least bit physically attractive either.
Of course, given her (my friend's) history as a would-be matchmaker and her crowd of friends, I'm sure anything you do would be a better job. >_>
Please don't take what I'm about to say bad...I mean it with the best intentions. Seriously.
Give the hook up girl a chance, I used to think the same way as you, (all women are not a match) but at some point you have to start thinking that it may be you that needs to be a little more open and not the girls. Give them a chance, and don't think that every girl has to be perfect, just have fun with them for a while and dump them. It is not like you are going to marry the chick. But untill you play the field you aren't going to find a match.
Treat each one like an experiment...Just so you can get yo MoJo.
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Don't make me fix you up.
Bleq. That never works. Someone I know is trying to hook me up with a girl already, with whom I have NOTHING in common. And I don't find her the least bit physically attractive either.
Of course, given her (my friend's) history as a would-be matchmaker and her crowd of friends, I'm sure anything you do would be a better job. >_>
Please don't take what I'm about to say bad...I mean it with the best intentions. Seriously.
Give the hook up girl a chance, I used to think the same way as you, (all women are not a match) but at some point you have to start thinking that it may be you that needs to be a little more open and not the girls. Give them a chance, and don't think that every girl has to be perfect, just have fun with them for a while and dump them. It is not like you are going to marry the chick. But untill you play the field you aren't going to find a match.
I agree. I've noticed that a lot of people are very narrow-minded about what they will accept as far as a potential mate's beliefs go. You know what? If they're nice, and you're attracted to them - give it a chance. Just because your politics don't align perfectly doesn't mean you don't have a chance to be happy. Besides, even if it's not marriage material, it can certainly be fun, just like Dave said!
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just have fun with them for a while and dump them.
That's something I'm just not going to do. I'm not going to spend a bunch of emotional capital, hers as well as mine, just so I can "practice". I try to get to know a girl before I ask her out, so I know there's at least a chance of a long-term relationship before I get involved. And even if that chance is slight, I'll give it a shot. If there appears to be mutual interest.
Problem is, none of the girls in whom I have been interested have had any interest in me. Never, ever, not once. It's not for lack of trying on my part - it's just that ladies don't like me. At least, those that I know in person. I have plenty of admirers online, much to my confusion.
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just have fun with them for a while and dump them.
That's something I'm just not going to do. I'm not going to spend a bunch of emotional capital, hers as well as mine, just so I can "practice". I try to get to know a girl before I ask her out, so I know there's at least a chance of a long-term relationship before I get involved. And even if that chance is slight, I'll give it a shot. If there appears to be mutual interest.
Problem is, none of the girls in whom I have been interested have had any interest in me. Never, ever, not once. It's not for lack of trying on my part - it's just that ladies don't like me. At least, those that I know in person. I have plenty of admirers online, much to my confusion.
Maybe I came off a little too strong on that one...I don't mean be jerk, just go out on dates, any date. At least until you can get a good base and confidence. It really worked for me is all I can say. By dating many women I realized what I really wanted in a woman and what I didn't want in a woman. And that is all because I didn't get too emotionally attached from the time our eyes met.
That's how I met my wife, it clicked, and I knew she was the one.
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Ok, I can dig that. But there's still the problem where in 10 years of me asking girls out on dates, exactly zero of them have ever agreed to one. From which I conclude that, since ladies who live on the other side of the country from me assure me that they think I'm both attractive and charming while those here (in Western PA) seem to regard me as a sort of slug, there's something about the females here that works against me.
Which sounds absurd when I say it (or type it) like that, but I'm stumped, otherwise. I'm not willing to blame it on my physical presence, because I've got plenty of friends who are girls. It's just that they're "just friends".
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OY.
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In person there is no backspace key. Thats why practice is essential. I don't consider stuff like that practice, though. Calling it a date makes it too heavy. Its a lot easier if you get involved with some sort of group, any group, that shares an interest of yours. Kite flying, some clean river project, a political activism group, softball league, whatever. Then you put yourself off as a movie guy, someone who likes to go see a flick when it comes out. This one looks good, that one sucked. This one looks awesome, I really wanna see this one. "Oh, me too!" .... Yeah? Wanna go tonight? Score. "No" - you gotta expect that ten-to-one. So you'd have to try that movie hookup like twenty times to get two successful 'dates' (which they are not - they are just a foot in the door). Once they know you're ok, you're free to ask again without the lump in your throat.
Truest words spoken this week. Always put the activity before the girl/boy. That's even better if you actually can convince yourself that the activity is more important. Then attracting people is just a very nice by-product of doing something you already enjoy.
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because I've got plenty of friends who are girls. It's just that they're "just friends".
They usually call those "fag hags".
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I used to stare, but now I don't. Staring at pretty women now seems to me like daydreaming about winning the lottery. It's depressing and pointless.
That's...lovely. :shock:
When life becomes that depressing, I would stop taking the insulin.
Who said my life is depressing? My life is quite happy, and partly because I don't waste my time longing after things I can't have.
Have you been reading Lindsey's old posts or something?
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because I've got plenty of friends who are girls. It's just that they're "just friends".
They usually call those "fag hags".
"They" are just too funny.
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just have fun with them for a while and dump them.
emotional capital
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Don't make me fix you up.
Bleq. That never works. Someone I know is trying to hook me up with a girl already, with whom I have NOTHING in common. And I don't find her the least bit physically attractive either.
Of course, given her (my friend's) history as a would-be matchmaker and her crowd of friends, I'm sure anything you do would be a better job. >_>
Please don't take what I'm about to say bad...I mean it with the best intentions. Seriously.
Give the hook up girl a chance, I used to think the same way as you, (all women are not a match) but at some point you have to start thinking that it may be you that needs to be a little more open and not the girls. Give them a chance, and don't think that every girl has to be perfect, just have fun with them for a while and dump them. It is not like you are going to marry the chick. But untill you play the field you aren't going to find a match.
Treat each one like an experiment...Just so you can get yo MoJo.
+1
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just have fun with them for a while and dump them.
That's something I'm just not going to do. I'm not going to spend a bunch of emotional capital, hers as well as mine, just so I can "practice". I try to get to know a girl before I ask her out, so I know there's at least a chance of a long-term relationship before I get involved. And even if that chance is slight, I'll give it a shot. If there appears to be mutual interest.
Problem is, none of the girls in whom I have been interested have had any interest in me. Never, ever, not once. It's not for lack of trying on my part - it's just that ladies don't like me. At least, those that I know in person. I have plenty of admirers online, much to my confusion.
Maybe I came off a little too strong on that one...I don't mean be jerk, just go out on dates, any date. At least until you can get a good base and confidence. It really worked for me is all I can say. By dating many women I realized what I really wanted in a woman and what I didn't want in a woman. And that is all because I didn't get too emotionally attached from the time our eyes met.
That's how I met my wife, it clicked, and I knew she was the one.
This is what my Jewish Colombian grandmother says. Every time I see her she asks "how many girlfriends do you have?" I used to think it was hilarious, but since I started dating around, I've found that it gives me much more confidence and increases my ability to get the "dream-girls" I used to daydream about.
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Be honest y'all.. it ain't just the hot women who get checked out.
A nice ass swaying in front of you.. a jogger in spandex with big sunglasses.. I'm a very visual sort of fellow and find myself checking all sorts of women out. I don't think I've ever gone as far as the "creep factor" when checking women out (that only happens after we've spoken!).
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I spend a lot of time people-watching...so I just tend to look.
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I'm deciding to take the Shaw approach from now on.
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just have fun with them for a while and dump them.
emotional capital
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What?
...I'm an economist. I can't help it.
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Pfft.
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just have fun with them for a while and dump them.
emotional capital
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What?
...I'm an economist. I can't help it.
Yeah, but what would the great free market economists think if they saw you today?
Bastiat, Menger, Mises, Rothbard...they all had bitches swinging from their dicks 24/7.