Economies are controlling entities in that their participants can never exceed the total possible wealth allocation of it at the given time. Then you can look at how social institutions outside of government regulate people's dress codes, sexuality, and religious beliefs. There's little difference because if government's root word, govern (to control), is as it is defined, even businesses and voluntary institutions are governments, pure and simple. So, really MD, it's you who are trying to define the term govern, because you want control to imply force. Yet have you asked yourself: what kind of force? Is it social exclusion? Economic exclusion? Basically, is it just plain material exclusion or the use of 'negative' force to exact a change in behavior or the state of things. Or is it 'positive' force, the force of a gun, a whip, a fist, and a quick hand in your pocket? When you recognize there is a distinction then you will understand. Until then, MD, you're on one side of the issue, and I am on the other.
-- Bridget