Mike Ruff is an excellent mediator. I just re-signed up to tell my side of the story on the shire forum. It strikes me as curious this post did not show up until I had my account deleted and could no longer respond there. Don't know when it will be because I have a lot on my plate right now, but there will be a response soon, possibly in multiple parts.
and also I agree we should not judge on private personal relationships, that is petty, and I am tired of people talking about my kids... I have absolutely had enough of that shit. I kept my breakup private because I do not want it to affect myself, my children or Tommy in a negative way and I would like to keep it that way. So if everyone could lay off on that shit, I would appreciate it.