Natalie, the fact remains that you are a known liar. You've been proven to be a liar, on several occasions.
I mean, you make up things that don't even make a lick of sense, like claiming that she reported the break-in that happened in Grafton, from Bristol. There were something like half a dozen of us in the room when she made the report, from Grafton. So you lied.
You claimed that she didn't pay the rent on the restaurant, when she can present the proof that she did. So you lied.
We went over this on the Underground, demonstrating your lies. I can just copy the posts from there, if you like?
The fact is, you are a liar so many times over that you have zero credibility with any rational person. You can't "prove" that she told you that she had ovarian cancer (I've never known you to make that claim, before, so I'm guessing that's something you just added to your story?), but if you didn't lie constantly, I might think you had some credibility. But you don't.
Your obvious obsession with her really can't look like anything but mental illness to any outside observer. I've shown your posts to friends who are in the mental health profession, and they're rather unanimous on the subject (granted, three individuals don't make a statistical set). I don't really care whether you believe me on that. But given your harping on Ivy's competence as a mother, I really think you owe it to your children to get some treatment. Given your obvious lack of mental stability, are you really going to be providing a healthy home for your children? There are plenty of private resources out there for new mothers who are having trouble coping.
Joe