Gah...stupid net.
I'm a big kid now.
Current mood: amused
I've recently been quite entertained with the idea that people feel they somehow know what is better
for me than I myself know; they somehow know how I feel and they must protect me from hurt; they
somehow know who I am and what I think and they are responsible to change my situation because
apparently I am not old enough to think for myself or be my own person.
So when was the last time that you checked in on the way you live your life? And, what, because you
live your life ruled by your emotions (a sad place to be really) suddenly that means everyone else does;
suddenly that means I do? And, what, because you suddenly think you know what I feel and think
(since I doubt you have any clue at all) I am supposed to bend to you and do as you say? Wait, your
analysis of my life is more accurate than my own?? How do you figure?
"We live our lives in chains, never even realising we hold the key." So what. I love him. This means
what to you? This means I must have my entire life revolving around him? I must be anxiously
awaiting his approval, or his attention, or his.. what? I don't understand. I'll tell you what it means.
Not your version of what you think it means, but the reality of what it truly means. I love him. And
that is all it means. I just love him. No other words fit. I don't madly desire him. I don't desperately
need him. I don't... I don't... I don't. I just love him. I am my own person, and he is his. And when
you love yourself enough to be your own person, you will realise that loving someone does not mean
that you then automatically, desperately, deeply, irrationally need to be with that person. Loving
someone - truly loving someone does not mean there is some unspoken promise of commitment, some
expectation of the feeling being reciprocated, some need for their affection. Truly loving someone
allows you to set them free; allows you to desire their own happiness above your selfish wants; allows
you to just give freely without demanding return. It just is. I just love him. See because long ago - I
found the key and unlocked my chains...
'splain sumthin to me...
Category: Life
why is it every man i meet that makes my heart stop (which is pretty rare for me) is all
hung up on some other girl, but i have a million guys chasing me... go figure. am i destined
for mediocrity?
that guy i can't let go of...
Current mood: confused
Category: Romance and Relationships
so this guy at work is abslutely everything i could have ever hoped for in life... except (just
like every other guy i've ever fallen for) he's in love with someone else. wtf. and it's not
like i don't have several other guys chasing me (as usual)... but i just can't get this one to
get out of my head. i'm so taken by him i'm even avoiding talking to these other guys and
taken to wearing my 'leave me the fuck alone' pretend engagement ring... which is funny
cuz the 'boss' owner lady thinks i'm 'with' the manager guy just cuz he asked me on a few
dates. but - he just doesn't make my heart stop... and this other one - when i'm near him i
can't even breathe...
i'd be happy just to spend time getting to know him more and hanging out with him... just
to be in his presence...
That's what friends are for!!!
Current mood: amused
Category: Friends
SEE!!???!?!?!?!? Does anyone wonder why I'm so picky about men now? Sheesh - what a
loser.
So I haven't been blogging cuz it's been a busy weekend. The crew hit the ball game Friday
night and then Hathors. We didn't stay too long for various tail-chasing reasons (a-hem we
know who you are mister!), but I got some digits... what can I say, I looked pretty good! I
woulda got that chick's number had this dude not interrupted, and even then had I had the
chance to talk to him longer and seen what a loser I woulda ditched him and gone to find
her again! LOL! Anyways, he was kinda cute and, for the ten minute conversation we had, I
was willing to see if he might be someone to have fun with, so since I had to go, I grabbed
the digits and left with the crew. Saturday was spent doing laundry for all, having bbq at
crayola, and then furniture shopping and starting on reorganizing my room (more on that
later - I LOVE MY NEW BED!!!! hehehe). Sunday was more bbq at crayola all day long along
with wii play. I figured, hey, what better place to talk more and see what's up than with my
friends... as opposed to on a date where I'd have to set up the 'call me in an hour to see if i
need to be rescued' call. LOL. I gave him a call and he came over... *sigh* what a loser.
Okay, I can't help it. I like the super-aggresive-totally-dominant-alpha-male type. And
there's so few of them around.
[Ed--one post is better than many]