...the repeated harping...it's painfully unlistenable.
To you, but it's clearly not universal. To me and certainly to many others, it sounds like she makes excellent points most of the time. When you call it harping, you're being dismissive of what she has to say as if it doesn't have a point and she's seeing problems where there are none. Obviously, that's the point of contention. I, for one, have not been convinced that's the case.
FWIW, if you asked my wife, mother and sister, they'd laugh at you if you asked whether I was a misogynist.
Look, I'm not trying to make this personal and label you or anything like that, but that's just not a persuasive point. The point is that women have been conditioned for generations to put up with bullshit from men. In particular, I would presume that if you were raised to not treat women with the greatest of respect, the women in your family were raised in the same environment and raised to put up with it. I imagine it's a pretty bizarre scenario when a women thinks her sibling or her son is a misogynist.
Essentially, if you disagree, then make an argument with respect to specific things she said instead of this endless trantrum throwing--
SHUT UP! SHUT UP! UR JUST WRAWNG!