I agree. I think she's actually very good, and I'd hoped that issue would subside. I just figured it was time remark about it when she actually bothered to call in about it. The crank was pretty unfocused, so it's not like it needed a response.
She's at her best, IMO, when she avoids that and shares her knowledge on medical issues, and, it's not as though her view about gender issues is unimportant, it's that that we seem to have heard all she has to say on it. That, and, she doesn't handle it as cleverly as Derrick, for example, handles the gay issues (basically by using wit that makes people think.) Hopefully she'll grow in that area, in the same way she expects others to grow toward her position.
I have a feeling it has something to do with that nonviolent communication bullshit she's bought into. If you use it like a cookbook people with some intelligence feel like they're being talked down to. Its sorta like the cheap sales methodologies they throw in a book for car salespeople (see, I try, I don't just blow it off, or I'd say salesmen) to read. I walk off the car lot when they spout that bullshit too.
For what it's worth, she has a great voice for radio and obviously has the skill to do a good job hosting a radio show as long as she doesn't get into the habit of trolling callers and other hosts (which of course, Ian does a lot too--side-tracking a topic over some peeve, which is worse on the radio, because it's easier to skip on the web.)