on reviewing the last episode i was a bit surprised about the answers given on the article about women's "turn offs" ... it's "old wives tales" like these or that of "Sir Real" that give dating and relationships a bad name
Hi, Christy.
Being one of those oft-shat-upon (figuratively speaking) nice guys, I respect the advice given by the type of guy women just "take home" for the same reason I respect the advice given by the kind of person who instinctively knows what's wrong with a car: Whatever it is they're doing, it works.
Not every "nice guy" goes home every night alone, or never finds someone to "grow with" as you put it. Looking for someone(s) to "grow with" is exactly what we're seeking. But we end up lonely one hell of a lot of the time.
Maybe that's all it is. Women think "this guy's lonely, avoid him, he'll just cling to me." Because, seriously, that's what the guys whom the women pick to spend time with tell us that the ladies tell them.
So I believe you, it's not
you. And on behalf of the under-screwed, I thank you for your patronage. But there is only one of
you, and there are a large number of me.