I, too, "have" someone to whom I can give a Valentine's Day gift, but I won't. Like Danielle and Gordee, I don't give gifts because gifts are traditionally given (birthdays, xmas, weddings, etc.). I give gifts when I want to give someone a gift, when I want to use my ability to give to someone I like or love something that will add to their happiness. That makes me happy, whereas shopping for a gift for someone during crowded shopping times (like december) or when I don't know what to give a person but am traditionally "supposed to" give them something makes me frustrated.
- Mike