Are you asking about how I feel about gays, or how I feel about the community?
I think gays are great. I think sometimes the "gay community" is a little nutty. Sometimes a little too obsessed with pride, sometimes a little too PC, sometimes a little too controlling. For example, my favorite advice columnist Dan Savage (who is gay) has received flack from "the community" on a few different occasions. Once for coming out strongly in favor of criminal penalties for knowingly giving someone AIDS, and once for getting married. Seriously. Apparently they didn't consider him and his boyfriend the right "model citizens" to present the subject of gay marriage to the country in spite of the fact that they'd been together 10 years and had a son they'd adopted together.