Hmm… I can see how a lot of people would not want to circumcise their boys; I can also see how a lot of people are just bullied into doing it because that’s what a majority of people do. It’s the ‘norm’ for most hospitals to offer it to new parents who aren’t really educated on the topic enough.
My man was not circumcised at birth because his mom did not want to pay for the service at the hospital. When I met him he was 16 and still uncircumcised…when he was born the doctors did not properly show his mom how to care for a baby’s penis so he ended up having complications when getting erections, or even peeing properly. It hurt him; normally this doesn’t happen when baby boys are given the proper care. He decided when he was 16 to have the circumcision surgery…it sucked for me because we had JUST started dating. We couldn’t kiss or even hug for a long time because it would hurt him after he got snipped.
He said he really wished his mom would have done it when he was a baby because he actually gained about 2 inches afterward, and it was much easier to masturbate now. He knows it would have caused him stress as a baby, but at the same time it was causing a lot of stress now that he was older. He had a medical reason to get circumcised, but he said he would have still done it if he knew he would get more out of sex, not just for the medical reason.
He said now he is torn (no pun) on what to do if we ever have a son, because he is glad he was able to make the choice for himself, but he also knows the pain he went through later in life.
Personally I like cut peen, but if you really love someone/yourself that shit shouldn’t even matter.