Cunnilingus - Yes or No?

I love being eaten

19 (54.3%)

It's okay

0 (0%)

I hate it

3 (8.6%)

Maybe, it depends

12 (34.3%)

Eat me, this way.  - James Douglas Morrison

1 (2.9%)

Total Members Voted: 17

[Bill Brasky]

SNL sucks in recent years, but I think I might have laughed at that.

Yeah, it does.  They lost their edge a little.  But when they are funny, they are funny.  I've probably watched it a dozen times in three or four years.  Mostly I like the Weekend News updates, and turn it off. 

Just like saying this board used to be cooler or funnier, it depends on the writer, not the whole thing.

Tina Fey is pretty damn funny, she's got an awesome wit.  Head writer for the past few years, first time for a woman to be in charge of a bunch of wacky mental patients.  I think she did good.

Get a history of SNL for bathroom reading, from the library, theres several if you'd like to drop a few dollops of pop culture onto your plate.  Good stories in there. 

[Lindsey]

I think Tina Fey is funny.  It's not her, it's the actors that suck.

[mbd]

That new chick does a great Nancy Pelosi.

[FTL_Ian]

Since very few women are actually commenting here, I thought I'd turn it around a bit:
http://bbs.freetalklive.com/index.php?topic=11275.0

[Soundwave]

I think Lindsey is the only lady who has replied, so I'll go next; I've been meaning to add my two cents anyway.

Okay, I'll start.  I love going down on a woman.

This attitude will ensure you eat more pussy. I have been with men who loved it, and men who didn't, but would do it anyway. The men who loved it did it often; those who didn't, did not simply because it was not enjoyable for either party. I have always felt more comfortable receiving oral sex from men who love it. From past experiences, and talking to ladies, I have concluded that having this attitude increases confidence, and ladies tend to be much more sexually adventurous in the long run, for those of you who like that.

I have also been on the giving side (not anytime recently) and can say I preferred eating pussy to sucking dick. Women tend to be bitchy though, and I couldn't imagine spending a considerable amount of time with one, so I like men.

Some ladies dislike it.  Some could care less.  Some would sit there all day and get off a dozen times.  Nobody needs to bare their soul, a simple "I like it" will suffice, if you would prefer to not elaborate, fine.

Some ladies dislike it because of personal preference (perhaps they have had a bad experience?), and some because it can be awkward having someone's head between your legs. I imagine it would be a little different for ladies like that if it weren't for the sexual oppression in America that shapes silly societal standards. As a young person, it generally takes a while to get over that.

Personally, I like it, IF it's good. Some guys think just being down there is enough, and don't understand there are certain techniques to make one cum.  If it's bad, it quickly gets boring. Men who give great oral sex can be hard to give up. There is a BIG difference between feeling good, and feeling good enough to achieve orgasm. This is where communication comes in to play. Some ladies are shy about communicating this sort of thing, but seriously, as a man, how are you supposed to know what feels good unless she tells you? If you are a lady, and you want good oral sex, for Pete's sake, talk to him.

The reasons can be more important than the likes and dislikes.  Techniques.  Overkill.  Toys?

Techniques? I probably can't go into this without disturbing people with way TMI. It all boils down to communication, as mentioned earlier.

[FTL_Ian]

If you are a lady, and you want good oral sex, for Pete's sake, talk to him.

But don't call him Pete.  Or Shirley.   

[Bill Brasky]

One of the best reasons (besides actually loving it) is it sends a psychological signal to your partner that you are completely satisfied with them hygenically and comfortable in the situation as it unfolds around you, youre not in any hurry to whip the dick out and start using it on an object.  Its a big erotic kiss.  

It doesnt take a genius to observe the body language of a guy who is unwilling to go down-- but does it anyway.  Thats probably a turnoff to women, so understanding this, it makes sense to display your enthusiasm.   But in my case, its just showmanship, I'd be smiling even if she was blindfolded.  

[zebraflood]

From my experience, being female and disliking being eaten out is a choice based on things outside of the pleasure derived from it. It's not a natural physical response, it's a psychological one. I've never heard any chick ever say, "I didn't like that because it just didn't feel good." It's not a real, natural reaction. There's a lot of self-conscious weirdness that goes on that influences what a lot of people are comfortable with, and it sucks. This happens particularly with women, but I've known a couple guys who had little sexual idiosyncrasies as well.

I was involved with a girl once who had this issue with having her stomach touched of all things, because she was self-conscious about it. It's a huge buzz kill for me to be told that something is off limits when I'm just trying to be intimate with my partner. Especially when you know it's just an illogical mindfuck on their part. It's not that they don't like it, they just have this idea that you're not going to like doing it (like Julia said: maybe they had a bad experience or someone made a comment in the past). To really be able to enjoy any sexual activity you have to relax, be comfortable with yourself and the body of someone else. That's the biggest hurdle to get over. Pushing boundaries is cool.

Anyway, right. I like it. I like to give it, I like to receive it, I like to watch other people giving/receiving it, the whole shebang. I'm down.

[mbd]

I'm down with Z... well, not literally. Or maybe it is literally. I'm getting lost, ah.. oh yes, PUSSY! Yeah, once I manage to get a chick nekkid, it's like the Garden of Eden or something. I think the best sexual relationships I've had have been with chicks who were OK with their own bodies enough to let me just enjoy the whole fucking thing. I think many women are uncomfortable even being naked with the lights on. I'm completely the opposite. As long as everything's OK and nothing's off limits, man, there is no limit to your pleasure, North, South, East, and West of the border.

[Bill Brasky]

[EclecticBuddha]

There are generally two types of women.  There are those who can only orgasm via cunnilingus or fingering or some combination.  These women are in the majority.  Then theres the minority who can achieve orgasm regularly by penetration.  These women are generally more sensitive so it takes less stimulation to get them off.  They can also be so sensitive that its just uncomfortable as hell.

Listen to loveline sometime bitches.  You learn alot of shit there.

[Rillion]

Generally speaking, I prefer fingers to tongues.  But if a guy is especially skilled, then there are few things better than this-- preferably, though, with a headboard or something to hold onto....and not looking as though you're about to hit him.  And, err, without clothes on.

(Believe it or not, I couldn't find an appropriate picture within three minutes and gave up)

[Taors]

That's pretty hot, Rill.

[Laetitia]

There are generally two types of women.  There are those who can only orgasm via cunnilingus or fingering or some combination.  These women are in the majority.  Then theres the minority who can achieve orgasm regularly by penetration.  These women are generally more sensitive so it takes less stimulation to get them off.  They can also be so sensitive that its just uncomfortable as hell.

Applause to you for paying attention to the loveline conversations, EB.
Several men take a lack of interest as a hang up over either body image or the intimacy of the act. I have very few hang ups about either my body, or oral sex... I enjoy giving and receiving, but the receiving has to be small doses. It's a discomfort with the contact being "too direct", and a little overwhelming.

[mbd]

(Believe it or not, I couldn't find an appropriate picture within three minutes and gave up)

Quitter.