Sounds like my relationship with police. Never been arrested. Heck, never even had a speeding ticket. But they always seem to find a way to make contact with me.
In the 3 years that I have owned my 2006 Town and Country, I have been pulled over only once. Prior to that, when I drove an old 90's-something red rust bucket, I'd get pulled over every few months. Usually for some bullshit equipment violation - exhaust hanging a little too low, front license plate not attached correctly, etc - but it never failed, they found an excuse to pull me over and seldom failed to ask to search my vehicle. I imagine, driving the rust bucket, they believed they had someone who was too poor to 1) chance pissing off a cop and 2) fight any charge in court.
Now, because I am such a "good girl," I tend to throw them off guard when I refuse a search. They cite the safety of the police officers, the safety of the neighborhood, etc. Luckily I still have not had to endure a search. But their presence - when I hear/read the stories and see them take the stupidest actions and they continue to amass more power and immunity, as the numbers of friends and family who's lives have been irreparably damaged due to "the system's" thirst for power - it is beginning to eat at me.
As time goes on I dislike them more and more. When the time comes that I am arrested/charged with a crime, I don't know how I will react. I hope, at least, it holds out until the kids are out of the house. They won't like the monster they've created, and I fear I may not either.