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Title: Questions from a straight guy to a gay guy
Post by: Diogenes The Cynic on September 23, 2012, 01:53:19 AM
Dale, you down to do this?
Title: Re: Questions from a straight guy to a gay guy
Post by: dalebert on September 23, 2012, 10:45:58 AM
What is "this"?
Title: Re: Questions from a straight guy to a gay guy
Post by: Turd Ferguson on September 24, 2012, 12:14:40 AM
Give it to him. Give it to him good.


An answer to his question, that is.
Title: Re: Questions from a straight guy to a gay guy
Post by: Diogenes The Cynic on September 24, 2012, 01:00:16 AM
People ask questions. Those who know answer.

First question: Prostate massage, how do I give myself one?
Title: Re: Questions from a straight guy to a gay guy
Post by: dalebert on September 24, 2012, 10:03:39 AM
People ask questions. Those who know answer.

First question: Prostate massage, how do I give myself one?

Shove something up your butt. Imagine that it's the back end of your dick. That should help you find it.
Title: Re: Questions from a straight guy to a gay guy
Post by: Diogenes The Cynic on October 14, 2012, 03:34:55 AM
Did this somehow inspire the Sunday show?
Title: Re: Questions from a straight guy to a gay guy
Post by: dalebert on October 14, 2012, 12:15:36 PM
What Sunday show?
Title: Re: Questions from a straight guy to a gay guy
Post by: Diogenes The Cynic on October 14, 2012, 05:21:46 PM
http://flamingfreedom.com/2012/10/13/episode-2012-october-13th-after-dark/ (http://flamingfreedom.com/2012/10/13/episode-2012-october-13th-after-dark/)
Title: Re: Questions from a straight guy to a gay guy
Post by: dalebert on October 14, 2012, 05:43:28 PM
Oh. That show which was recorded during the week and released on Saturday morning (as per the schedule for After Dark episodes) was mostly inspired by a listeners detailed email about his experiences with pegging.
Title: Re: Questions from a straight guy to a gay guy
Post by: Diogenes The Cynic on December 11, 2012, 02:59:55 PM
Another question.

I'll put this as delicately as I can, and I mean no harm. You know how straight guys view sex with another man as vile? Or that another guy being sexy doesn't click?

Do gay guys view women the same way? That there isn't a click, that women are vile, etc.?
Title: Re: Questions from a straight guy to a gay guy
Post by: dalebert on December 11, 2012, 03:25:19 PM
Do gay guys view women the same way? That there isn't a click, that women are vile, etc.?

Some do. Some don't.
Title: Re: Questions from a straight guy to a gay guy
Post by: Diogenes The Cynic on December 11, 2012, 09:48:27 PM
Can you articulate a little?
Title: Re: Questions from a straight guy to a gay guy
Post by: dalebert on December 11, 2012, 10:54:43 PM
Can you articulate a little?

Well, there's the Kinsey Scale and it's speculated that a lot of folks are somewhat bi, but due to all the social pressure and taboos, they suppress their gay side. It's speculated quite a lot that the reason some guys find thoughts of sex with guys so "vile" as opposed to just not being interested, is because they're afraid they'll like it and that entails a lot of things they've been conditioned to believe are just horrible. That's why the guys aren't good-looking in straight porn. If a guy starts finding himself turned on by the guy, he'll get that revulsion feeling.

Imagine a world where only straight is acceptable. If you were bi but just a little bit gay, it's easier to just be straight and suppress any gay feelings. So the only people who actually act on it and come out are the guys who are really, REALLY gay on the Kinsey Scale and not very straight at all. Some gay guys have never been with a woman and a woman's body is just really foreign to them (unlike a straight guy who is familiar with the male body, genitals, etc.). So I think some of them react that way because it just represents the unknown and there is just no way to explore it in a non-sexual way.

I don't have that reaction anymore because I started to become aware there were guys out there, who were actually quite hot, who have vaginas. I gradually got over my revulsion reaction to vaginas when I realized I could explore something like that as part of someone I'm actually attracted to. I used to ponder what it might feel like but I knew I never wanted to just experiment. There was just way too much baggage. I knew I couldn't feel romantic or sexual feelings for a woman--performance anxiety (how do I get it up if she's not turning me on?), one-sided feelings (the thought of hurting her because she might be into me but I won't be into her), just off the top of my head--all kinds of anxiety attached to it.
Title: Re: Questions from a straight guy to a gay guy
Post by: Diogenes The Cynic on December 11, 2012, 11:33:57 PM
Thank you Dale. Pretty informative.
Title: Re: Questions from a straight guy to a gay guy
Post by: Diogenes The Cynic on June 11, 2013, 10:52:06 PM
Dale, what are your thoughts on body hair?
Title: Re: Questions from a straight guy to a gay guy
Post by: dalebert on June 12, 2013, 01:21:01 AM
Not a fan of too much of it. Big fan of grooming.