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Title: what's the point of going back to your ex girlfriend after she cheated on you..
Post by: Joseffritzl on October 15, 2010, 08:20:37 PM
.... thinking things are going to be different and better this time?



LOL CONSTITUTION
Title: Re: what's the point of going back to your ex girlfriend after she cheated on y
Post by: Sam Gunn (since nobody got Admiral Naismith) on October 15, 2010, 08:32:06 PM
Sounds like a terrible idea
Title: Re: what's the point of going back to your ex girlfriend after she cheated on you..
Post by: Rillion on October 15, 2010, 08:57:53 PM
Cheating is a big deal, but I think it's silly to assume it has to mean the end of the relationship. 

What does the Constitution have to do with it?
Title: Re: what's the point of going back to your ex girlfriend after she cheated on you..
Post by: Turd Ferguson on October 15, 2010, 09:00:17 PM
If the sex is really good, go back with her for some fun but thats about it, keeping in mind that it wont last.

Dont marry this one though.
Title: Re: what's the point of going back to your ex girlfriend after she cheated on you..
Post by: mikehz on October 15, 2010, 09:24:38 PM
On the other hand, she might be willing to do threesoms with you.
Title: Re: what's the point of going back to your ex girlfriend after she cheated on you..
Post by: Rillion on October 15, 2010, 10:06:53 PM
If the sex is really good, go back with her for some fun but thats about it, keeping in mind that it wont last.

Dont marry this one though.

Meh.  Chances are good that whoever you have a long-term relationship with, much less marry, will cheat on you at least once.  If they want the relationship to end, they'll either tell you or be sloppy about it so you find out.  If they don't, you'll probably never know unless you're freakishly paranoid or they're dumb enough to get pregnant, get someone else pregnant, or give you an STD, in which case that's a good reason to break up with them. 
Title: Re: what's the point of going back to your ex girlfriend after she cheated on you..
Post by: BonerJoe on October 15, 2010, 10:08:11 PM
What does the Constitution have to do with it?

That was the whole gist of the joke/sadness of reality.
Title: Re: what's the point of going back to your ex girlfriend after she cheated on you..
Post by: Bill Brasky on October 15, 2010, 10:23:25 PM

I would have to meet your woman face to face to form a proper response to your query.




Title: Re: what's the point of going back to your ex girlfriend after she cheated on you..
Post by: mrapplecastle on October 15, 2010, 10:25:08 PM
....yeah, its about the government  (http://i274.photobucket.com/albums/jj251/Redcap557/derp/derp3.jpg)
Title: Re: what's the point of going back to your ex girlfriend after she cheated on you..
Post by: John Shaw on October 15, 2010, 10:31:56 PM
Cheating is a big deal, but I think it's silly to assume it has to mean the end of the relationship. 

Depends on whether the injured party is willing to put up with that shit, I suppose.
Title: Re: what's the point of going back to your ex girlfriend after she cheated on you..
Post by: Rillion on October 15, 2010, 10:47:22 PM
Cheating is a big deal, but I think it's silly to assume it has to mean the end of the relationship. 

Depends on whether the injured party is willing to put up with that shit, I suppose.

Well, yeah-- if injured parties weren't ever willing to put up with any shit, there would be no relationships.  *shrug*
Title: Re: what's the point of going back to your ex girlfriend after she cheated on you..
Post by: Branlin on October 15, 2010, 10:54:48 PM
If the sex is really good, go back with her for some fun but thats about it, keeping in mind that it wont last.

Dont marry this one though.

I agree. Short term might be ok, but long term it will likely not work.

Women tend to be much more forgiving about a guy who cheats for some reason. But when a woman cheats, she's damaged goods forever with the guy she betrayed. It can be overlooked for a while, but the mental images are always gnawing away in the guy's mind. A healthy level of trust is nearly impossible after that.

There are exceptions, I suppose, but they are not the norm. At least as I see it.

Title: Re: what's the point of going back to your ex girlfriend after she cheated on you..
Post by: mrapplecastle on October 15, 2010, 10:58:30 PM
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Title: Re: what's the point of going back to your ex girlfriend after she cheated on you..
Post by: Bill Brasky on October 15, 2010, 11:03:37 PM
People sleep together, somehow, and continue that path to its eventual destruction. 


Thats all.







Title: Re: what's the point of going back to your ex girlfriend after she cheated on you..
Post by: davann on October 18, 2010, 10:47:28 AM
Two words. Grudge Fuck.
Title: Re: what's the point of going back to your ex girlfriend after she cheated on you..
Post by: BonerJoe on October 18, 2010, 10:50:51 AM
People sleep together, somehow, and continue that path to its eventual destruction. 


Thats all.

So is the solution not sleeping together?
Title: Re: what's the point of going back to your ex girlfriend after she cheated on you..
Post by: Ecolitan on October 18, 2010, 09:59:17 PM
I'm contractually obligated to inform Mrs. Ecolitan before I sleep with someone else.  I take it serious.  When tempted I don't ask myself if I can get away with it or if she'll put up with it but if I want to terminate my contract because those are the conditions.  If you can't deal with the conditions don't enter into the agreement.
Title: Re: what's the point of going back to your ex girlfriend after she cheated on you..
Post by: Bill Brasky on October 23, 2010, 12:37:57 AM
People sleep together, somehow, and continue that path to its eventual destruction. 


Thats all.

So is the solution not sleeping together?

Depends on the people. 

Some people die before they reach the conclusion.  Some people break up before they die.  But if people lived infinite lives, they'd all break up.  Which leads me to the conclusion that no relationship should ever be expected to be forever.  People change, and it can't be assumed that people will be willing to continue on with you, as you and they become different people over the course of your evolution. 

I say, smoke em while you got 'em.  If you're getting along, fine.  If you're not...  and you're young... don't put up with an exorbitant amount of bullshit. 

When people get older, you allow for a certain amount of qwerks and idiosyncrasies.  No outright throwes of physical hostility, I think is the approved line.