High fives for the Stanhope clip!!!
I get so irritated when I hear people complain about how "selfish" it was for the person to commit suicide, yet they pretty much ignored the person when they were alive. I've had 3 friends commit suicide, and while I am so thankful I wasn't the one to find them, I never once made it all about myself and cried that it was selfish for them to "leave me". People have their reasons and I feel that while we can be there for them while they are still alive, but we can not force them to do anything. Of course I was sad, but I'm not going to tell someone what to do....or tie them up so they don't do it, or worse yet, call the police.
A friend's Mom was living in a different state and called him depressed and threatening to kill herself. My friend called the police in her local town. 3 hours later she called him from a jail cell claiming they broke her front door and pepper sprayed her, cuffed her and shoved her into a cruiser. *True Story. This is one reason why you shouldn't call the police on a mentally unstable family member threatening to harm themselves..... It will just make their life harder and when the State gets involved, the person risks never being able to get a job again because they now have a record, a forced 72 hour hold under their belt, and might been seen as "crazy" hone having to explain the any criminal record associated.