Me thinks you should get the chip off your shoulder. I don't like censorship or threatening speech. You have indicated that I have something against gays several times. I don't have any openly gay friends, but I have intervened, with great personal risk, to save gay people from violence and verbal abuse even when I was a young Republican. Stefan is very precise in his speech. Maybe he is full of shit on his theories about NVC and UPB but we don't know at this point, no generation has been raised this way. When something is unproven you can pretty much postulate any thing you want. I actually think raising kids without any challenges or natural anger (although I think spanking unproductive) is a bad idea. What will be awesome is a world where saying "I am a homosexual" means as much in a casual conversation as stating ones shoe size.* That is what both myself and Molyneux are working towards.
*Of course if you are looking for a lover, saying ones sexual preference would be a important fact to get out there. If I am attracted to it.... I would fuck it. So it doesn't really matter in my case. No dicks so far but you never know.....