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TimeLady Victorious

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Re: Rational rejection of interpersonal sex.
« Reply #15 on: February 11, 2010, 06:32:25 PM »



I'd rather be with someone who can both fuck my brains out and be a friend to me than be completely alone and having no sex.

Good luck.  Or you could reevaluate the need to have your brains fucked out of you by another human being, which would free up a greater portion of your life for other things.  Not having sexual compatibility as a criteria would open you to being able to have better friends.


I already have sexual compatibility and a real friend.

Said friend lives more than five hundred miles away from me though :sadface:
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Re: Rational rejection of interpersonal sex.
« Reply #16 on: February 11, 2010, 07:21:13 PM »

I'm a crazy agoraphobic lesbian. Getting out of the house to check the mail once a day is an achievement for me.
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Re: Rational rejection of interpersonal sex.
« Reply #17 on: February 11, 2010, 07:46:51 PM »

[...]  Have another shot of cheap vodka.

Hey now, why the elevation of hostility?  This thread is about me and my sex life.  To each his own.

And I've had very little alcohol in my lifetime total; less than 20 drinks in the past year, and my last drink was on October 23rd.  Don't plan on having one again, ever.


I can't for the life of me fathom why someone would feel the need to make a choice between intellectual conquest and orgasms.

Neither do I, but most people seem to sacrifice the former for the latter quite a bit...  :?


If it's a time issue, surely Libman has wasted exponentially more time here blathering on than he has orgasming.

Hey now, that was some of the greatest blathering ever achieved by a member of the human race!  An exploration of a thousand different facets of the human condition - never mindless, never repetitive, and preserved for greater glory of all mankind!  And, sure, some of it was infantile, but that's the whole point - ideas such as that don't often get explored on an open literary level.  And it was very therapeutic too.


I already have sexual compatibility and a real friend.

Said friend lives more than five hundred miles away from me though

Are you sure it was both friendship and sexual compatibility, without one compromising the other?  I'm not saying that's impossible, just highly unlikely, especially with all the monkey hormones getting in the way of sound judgment.  In any case, you've tried to attain happiness from outside of your own self, and you've paid the price that most people do...


I'm a crazy agoraphobic lesbian. Getting out of the house to check the mail once a day is an achievement for me.

It's so nice to be able to feel sympathy for you without any hint of actionable sexual attraction, which would have existed otherwise.  The one thing I've never experienced was... someone like you...
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Re: Rational rejection of interpersonal sex.
« Reply #18 on: February 11, 2010, 07:50:32 PM »

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Quote from: TimeLady Victorious on Today at 06:32:25 PM
I already have sexual compatibility and a real friend.

Said friend lives more than five hundred miles away from me though

Are you sure it was both friendship and sexual compatibility, without one compromising the other?  I'm not saying that's impossible, just highly unlikely, especially with all the monkey hormones getting in the way of sound judgment.  In any case, you've tried to attain happiness from outside of your own self, and you've paid the price that most people do...

Both, definitely.

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I'm a crazy agoraphobic lesbian. Getting out of the house to check the mail once a day is an achievement for me.

It's so nice to be able to feel sympathy for you without any hint of actionable sexual attraction, which would have existed otherwise.  The one thing I've never experienced was... someone like you...

You'd be surprised how often I hear that.
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Re: Rational rejection of interpersonal sex.
« Reply #19 on: February 11, 2010, 09:42:31 PM »

I rather enjoy interpersonal sex, and enjoy it rather often.
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Re: Rational rejection of interpersonal sex.
« Reply #20 on: February 11, 2010, 09:43:57 PM »

I rather enjoy interpersonal sex, and enjoy it rather often.

It's rather better than intrapersonal sex, which is still pretty good. 
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Re: Rational rejection of interpersonal sex.
« Reply #21 on: February 11, 2010, 09:49:03 PM »

I rather enjoy interpersonal sex, and enjoy it rather often.

It's rather better than intrapersonal sex, which is still pretty good. 

Don't knock masturbation. Its sex with someone you love.
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Re: Rational rejection of interpersonal sex.
« Reply #22 on: February 11, 2010, 10:19:54 PM »

Heh, somehow your puny monkey-brains have drifted this thread into the realm of self-denial, which is not what it's all about.  It's about uncompromising rational individualism in all things, including sex.  If you don't get it then you don't get it.  I do.  :D

And ladies - high-IQ Libman sperm is available upon request.  Seriously.
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« Reply #23 on: February 11, 2010, 11:17:58 PM »

Ah, silly n00b, doesn't even understand that trolling is not a true or false condition, but a pandimensional infinity of possibilities!  :lol:

As for complete celibacy, I've tried it multiple times, including around the time I wrote this:
 
Every guy who never missed an orgasm-a-day routine since puberty should try to go a month w/o one.  (Wet dreams are allowed.)  It changes your psychology, gives you a drive you didn't have before, a drive than can be channeled to other things.  It makes you wanna pick up a sword and march on a crusade!

So no wonder societies that want discipline and collectivism go to great lengths to discourage masturbation, and the consumerist "get what you want when you want it" societies naturally adapt the idea that everybody's doing it...

The important thing is to be in control of your emotions.  If you let yourself get instant gratification every time you feel a need (and perhaps even encouraging the need to arise via porn), there are certain important chemicals that never get a chance to develop in your brain.  Absence of those chemicals can make you more passive, less willing to push yourself to pursue opportunities, and thus weaken you, possibly hurt your career or whatever other goals you've made for yourself.

Make masturbation (or real sex) a neuroassociative condition for success!  Put together a criteria by which you rank your day and assign a grade.  If you don't score a B+, no orgasm for you!

Now, if you'll excuse me, I have some hypocrisy to attend to...   :P


But...  When I went without it for weeks I'd waste like 100x more energy trying to not think about sex, and I was about ready to smash my head through a brick wall!  Even the priests aren't really expected not to do it!  So it's easier to just get it out of your system, like any other necessary bodily function.  Five to ten minutes 5-20 times per week is a small price to pay.  :roll:

So anyway, to answer the question in your last paragraph - the mere possibility of interpersonal sex is a great destroyer of time and mental energy.  You think about it with every girl you have a chance to get to know (and if you're not a perfect 0 on the Kinsey scale then it's even worse).  If you haven't done it for a while, you're starting to doubt yourself.  Temptation can come at you from all the wrong places.  Etc.  But when you completely swear off even the possibility of any kind of interpersonal sex, ever - you're free!
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« Reply #24 on: February 11, 2010, 11:48:32 PM »

Well, I feel the first post in this thread really covers everything.  Sex is a waste of human potential, and the less time you waste on it the better.  The last fuck-buddy I've had required a 40 minute drive each way (kind of hard now that I'm a car-free tax resister).  Finding fuck-buddies who are not an emotional can of worms is always a gamble.  (PROTIP: stay away from Jewish girls, they're all psychos.)  It always takes more out of you than you think.  And, besides, I'm never myself when I'm having interpersonal sex, I become someone else.  I don't like that anymore.  So...

Asexuality FTW!
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« Reply #25 on: February 12, 2010, 12:43:20 AM »

Well, I feel the first post in this thread really covers everything.  Sex is a waste of human potential, and the less time you waste on it the better.  The last fuck-buddy I've had required a 40 minute drive each way (kind of hard now that I'm a car-free tax resister).  Finding fuck-buddies who are not an emotional can of worms is always a gamble.  (PROTIP: stay away from Jewish girls, they're all psychos.)  It always takes more out of you than you think.  And, besides, I'm never myself when I'm having interpersonal sex, I become someone else.  I don't like that anymore.  So...

Asexuality FTW!


After having studied philosophy for well over a decade now, I have concluded that mostly everything is bullshit. Logic & reasoning is mostly bullshit...the human condition is bullshit.....sex is bullshit....liberty is bullshit....economics is bullshit...everything is bullshit. Even though, my current perspective is rather negative....I can't help but notice that my mind feels pretty free.

In this bullshit world, I really do not need to justify anything....it really doesn't matter, because it's all bullshit, anywayz.

Maybe from now on...concepts will serve as merely a form of cheap entertainment.

NATURE RULES OVER YOU PATHETIC HUMAN BEINGS! NATURE RULES OVER YOU TOO ALEX! You cannot escape nature's DOOM!

you eat when nature tells you to eat....you shit when nature tells you to shit...you die when nature tells you to die....BUUUUUT you can't always fuck when nature tells you to fuck...why not? Because nature hates YOU!

You are confusing logical nature (ex. the mathematical laws) with our monkey-nature (ex. eat, shit, fuck, die).  The latter can be hacked.  If we so desire.
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Re: Rational rejection of interpersonal sex.
« Reply #26 on: February 12, 2010, 08:00:33 AM »

I still don't get why masturbating while thinking about sex is better than actual sex.

But then, it's been many years since I've done the ol' self-pleasure thing, so maybe I'm missing something.
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Re: Rational rejection of interpersonal sex.
« Reply #27 on: February 12, 2010, 08:07:10 AM »

I know it's tough when you're having a hard time finding someone who will have have sex with you, but it's not a reason to make up theories about why that's a good thing.  I've known people who claim(ed) to be asexual, but the reality was that they either a)couldn't get sex or b)couldn't get sex with the person they wanted to have sex with.  Their "asexualness" quickly disappeared once they got into a relationship again.  Of course, if you're really happy with your life, then by all means continue doing what you're doing.
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Re: Rational rejection of interpersonal sex.
« Reply #28 on: February 12, 2010, 09:38:25 AM »

I once went 3 years w/o sex, sometimes it was very difficult saying no and I would have to be careful about the situations I put myself in.  It was good for me.
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« Reply #29 on: February 12, 2010, 11:11:48 AM »

I still don't get why masturbating while thinking about sex is better than actual sex.

Not everyone thinks about sex while masturbating.  Many monks promote fierce prayer while dry-humping their mattress, for example.  Many a criminal (ex. in Malaysia) found that he could make his punishment more bearable by humping and jizzing into his caning restraints while his buttocks were being turned into hamburger meat.  Etc.  That doesn't exactly work for me, but that means the physical and psycho-chemical need for orgasm can be re-routed to other emotions.  Like telling the government to go fuck itself.  :lol:

I could castrate myself entirely of course, but that might involve some side-effects (not to mention a lot of government red tape), and I don't like to make life-changing decisions lightly.  (Notice how many years it took me to move to New Hampshire, for example.)  But that is a possibility I'll consider, and that will mean the supply of high-IQ Libman sperm will eventually become finite!  That's right, ladies, you might have to bid at an auction to get what today you can get for free!  PM me to begin contractual negations today!  ;)


Their "asexualness" quickly disappeared once they got into a relationship again.

Well, if you ever catch me going to a high-rate prostitute, which I could easily afford before I became a tax resister, or traveling to Russia, where the hottest girls would fuck me just because I'm a rich American citizen (and I'm also more charming in Russian, go figure), etc - then you can call me a hypocrite, but in the meantime you have no grounds to do so!

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