Its not like anything has changed for you. |
Glad to hear you've come up with yet another tenet of personal life philosophy which makes you ever more content with your mental & emotional quirks?
People need human contact. [...] |
Your sanity will thank you. [...] |
Glad to hear you've come up with yet another tenet of personal life philosophy which makes you ever more content with your mental & emotional quirks?
You should give up porn. |
Is it not a common trait amongst serial killers that they were devoid of human contact while growing up? This might be something you could look into before messing with nature.
Is it not a common trait amongst serial killers that they were devoid of human contact while growing up? |
I'd rather be with someone who can both fuck my brains out and be a friend to me than be completely alone and having no sex. |
One moment of true intellectual conquest feels better than 10,000,000 orgasms!
You might have to take my word on this though. ;)
One moment of true intellectual conquest feels better than 10,000,000 orgasms!
You might have to take my word on this though. ;)
Good luck. Or you could reevaluate the need to have your brains fucked out of you by another human being, which would free up a greater portion of your life for other things. Not having sexual compatibility as a criteria would open you to being able to have better friends.
[...] Have another shot of cheap vodka. |
I can't for the life of me fathom why someone would feel the need to make a choice between intellectual conquest and orgasms. |
If it's a time issue, surely Libman has wasted exponentially more time here blathering on than he has orgasming. |
I already have sexual compatibility and a real friend. |
I'm a crazy agoraphobic lesbian. Getting out of the house to check the mail once a day is an achievement for me. |
Quote from: TimeLady Victorious on Today at 06:32:25 PM
I already have sexual compatibility and a real friend.
Said friend lives more than five hundred miles away from me though
Are you sure it was both friendship and sexual compatibility, without one compromising the other? I'm not saying that's impossible, just highly unlikely, especially with all the monkey hormones getting in the way of sound judgment. In any case, you've tried to attain happiness from outside of your own self, and you've paid the price that most people do...
Quote from: TimeLady Victorious on Today at 07:21:13 PM
I'm a crazy agoraphobic lesbian. Getting out of the house to check the mail once a day is an achievement for me.
It's so nice to be able to feel sympathy for you without any hint of actionable sexual attraction, which would have existed otherwise. The one thing I've never experienced was... someone like you...
I rather enjoy interpersonal sex, and enjoy it rather often.
I rather enjoy interpersonal sex, and enjoy it rather often.
It's rather better than intrapersonal sex, which is still pretty good.
Every guy who never missed an orgasm-a-day routine since puberty should try to go a month w/o one. (Wet dreams are allowed.) It changes your psychology, gives you a drive you didn't have before, a drive than can be channeled to other things. It makes you wanna pick up a sword and march on a crusade!
So no wonder societies that want discipline and collectivism go to great lengths to discourage masturbation, and the consumerist "get what you want when you want it" societies naturally adapt the idea that everybody's doing it...
The important thing is to be in control of your emotions. If you let yourself get instant gratification every time you feel a need (and perhaps even encouraging the need to arise via porn), there are certain important chemicals that never get a chance to develop in your brain. Absence of those chemicals can make you more passive, less willing to push yourself to pursue opportunities, and thus weaken you, possibly hurt your career or whatever other goals you've made for yourself.
Make masturbation (or real sex) a neuroassociative condition for success! Put together a criteria by which you rank your day and assign a grade. If you don't score a B+, no orgasm for you (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/No_soup_for_you)!
Now, if you'll excuse me, I have some hypocrisy to attend to... :P
Well, I feel the first post in this thread really covers everything. Sex is a waste of human potential, and the less time you waste on it the better. The last fuck-buddy I've had required a 40 minute drive each way (kind of hard now that I'm a car-free tax resister). Finding fuck-buddies who are not an emotional can of worms is always a gamble. (PROTIP: stay away from Jewish girls, they're all psychos.) It always takes more out of you than you think. And, besides, I'm never myself when I'm having interpersonal sex, I become someone else. I don't like that anymore. So...
Asexuality FTW!
After having studied philosophy for well over a decade now, I have concluded that mostly everything is bullshit. Logic & reasoning is mostly bullshit...the human condition is bullshit.....sex is bullshit....liberty is bullshit....economics is bullshit...everything is bullshit. Even though, my current perspective is rather negative....I can't help but notice that my mind feels pretty free.
In this bullshit world, I really do not need to justify anything....it really doesn't matter, because it's all bullshit, anywayz.
Maybe from now on...concepts will serve as merely a form of cheap entertainment.
NATURE RULES OVER YOU PATHETIC HUMAN BEINGS! NATURE RULES OVER YOU TOO ALEX! You cannot escape nature's DOOM!
you eat when nature tells you to eat....you shit when nature tells you to shit...you die when nature tells you to die....BUUUUUT you can't always fuck when nature tells you to fuck...why not? Because nature hates YOU!
I still don't get why masturbating while thinking about sex is better than actual sex. |
Their "asexualness" quickly disappeared once they got into a relationship again. |
I was always under the notion that really for real "asexuals" do not even get horny [...] |
It is also pretty much impossible to deal with chicks without wanting to fuck them. |
So how does Alex The Transhumanist aka The Sexual Hacker....expect to solve this problem of endless instinctual sexual baiting? |
I really don't dig the extreme nihilism in this thread. |
I for one support castration, and think more men should get it done. |
Well maybe NHAT and Libman and Alciere, but I don't think I support that in general. |
You can castrate yourself if you like. [...] |
[Being John Shaw] |
ALEX I COME TO NEW HAMPSHIRE FUCK YOU IN ASS K |
So asexuality is a reaction to latent homosexuality? Should have known. |
I regret having to delete stuff, but some people are just way too hateful for absolutely no rational reason, and, as years of experience have shown, just cannot be dealt with constructively. I usually don't mind, but I am disgusted at the idea of someday looking back at this life-changing thread 50 or 100 years from now and having to remember those idiots, who otherwise don't deserve to be remembered...
I once went 3 years w/o sex, sometimes it was very difficult saying no and I would have to be careful about the situations I put myself in. It was good for me.
Heck no, I experienced the most same-sex attraction in my teens (and always to younger boys, but without really thinking about the mechanics of homosexual sex) and it declined from there. The idea of abusing either end of the digestive system in that way disgusts me. And it was mostly an experiment in open-mindedness - I've always preferred girls, and I've been attracted to girls for as long as I can remember myself.
Heck no, I experienced the most same-sex attraction in my teens (and always to younger boys,
What you summed up in your reply sounds like the clinical definition of what I suspect as typical pedophilia.
Heck no, I experienced the most same-sex attraction in my teens (and always to younger boys,
What you summed up in your reply sounds like the clinical definition of what I suspect as typical pedophilia.
Uh, no. Pedophilia is the sexual attraction to pre-pubescent children by adults. When you were a teenage boy attracted to younger girls, were you a pedophile?
Nope, have always like older women. Even as a pre-pubescent myself Farah Fawcettt and the rest of Charlie's Angels tripped my trigger. To call my sexuality, even as a teenager, into question diverts from the subject and I can not help but suspect it was meant as a subtle personal attack.
Teens are young adults.Quote from Alex : my teens (and always to younger boys. This along with Alex's history of dropping hints, or at times outright proclamations, on the boards in relation to this subject gave me enough to diagnose a possible reason for his proclaimed asexualness.
[...] I doubt that he is trolling about all the pedo stuff, though. [...] |
You mean send him one of those Thor horse dildos plus a lifetime supply of lube?Would this be acceptable his self proclaimed asexual ultimate philosophy of life? |
[Commander's office]
(doorbell)
SISKO: Come in. Yes, Odo.
ODO: Commander, I have a problem.
SISKO: Quark again?
ODO: No, sir, this one's named Lwaxana.
SISKO: Lwaxana Troi the Ambassador?
ODO: That's her. There was a minor incident at the bar that I helped her with, and now she's grateful.
SISKO: What's the problem?
ODO: The manner in which she expresses her gratitude. To be honest, Commander, she seems interested in me.
SISKO: What's wrong with that?
ODO: She's extremely aggressive.
SISKO: I see. So, she's after you.
ODO: Like a Wanoni tracehound.
SISKO: Have you thought of letting her catch you?
ODO: Sir?
SISKO: A little romance, Odo.
ODO: I have six pylons that need a complete security sweep. I don't have time for romantic interludes. Frankly, in my humble opinion, most of you humanoids spend far too much time on your respective mating rituals.
SISKO: It does help the procreation of one's species.
ODO: Procreation does not require changing how you smell, or writing bad poetry, or sacrificing various plants to serve as tokens of affection. In any event, it's all irrelevant to me.
SISKO: I'm sorry to hear that.
ODO: I would appreciate it if you would do something about this woman.
SISKO: Me?
ODO: Just tell her to leave me alone.
SISKO: Constable, you can handle thieves and killers but not one Betazoid woman?
ODO: I understand thieves and killers. I don't understand her.
SISKO: I can't help you, Odo.
ODO: I'm just trying to avoid a diplomatic incident. I don't want to insult the Ambassador.
SISKO: A reasonable concern. I suggest you handle the matter with great delicacy.
ODO: I don't handle delicacy very well.
I'm a crazy agoraphobic lesbian. Getting out of the house to check the mail once a day is an achievement for me.
I'm a crazy agoraphobic lesbian. Getting out of the house to check the mail once a day is an achievement for me.
Sexy potluck time.