I am a bigot and very intolerant. I am intolerant of the view that the state taking my money at the point of a gun is somehow different from theft. I am bigoted because I believe that people own their bodies.
That sounds like the only thing you're intolerant of is actual intolerance. Statism is fueled by intolerance and a desire to control others. Being tolerant only makes sense if you actually stop at tolerating intolerance. Otherwise it is paradoxical. Statists have no problem with paradoxes and inconsistencies in general. They have elaborate mechanisms for dealing with cognitive dissonance.
I doubt you're a bigot either. If you're like most libertarians (small-l), then you took a lot of convincing to get there. If you
seem to be, it might just be because you're not hearing any good, logical points that might change your views. Even after becoming a libertarian, I'm still constantly looking at things from a new perspective when such perspectives are effectively presented.
I think a bigot better describes someone who's stuck in a particular viewpoint, maybe due to arbitrary faith or taboos that are well integrated into their personalities from long-term conditioning, and blocks out any logical arguments that might create cognitive dissonance for them, obstinantly failing to even consider new perspectives, even when presented logically and backed by substantial evidence.