Ugh, I can relate to your cop story.. I came back home from college a few years ago and went in to a police station b/c I thought I had gotten a ticket the last time I was in town and wanted to pay any fines I might have owed--BIG MISTAKE. Instead of telling me what I owed, I was told to step inside where I was arrested and interrogated by cops (whose questions I refused to answer). They didn't let me make a phone call, but instead called the jurisdiction where I had gotten the ticket and they sent TWO cops in a car from almost 2 hours away to come pick me up and drive me back (in handcuffs, ignoring the fact i came in voluntarily) and took me to JAIL. Fortunately, my friends came with $500 to bail me out so I only spent about 5 hours in jail, which doesn't sound like a big deal, but it was awful. The cops told my friends they "can't accept cash" so I had to wait another 30 minutes while they tried to find a place that sold money orders in the middle of the night. Then I was released but stranded 2 hours away from my car, and when I went to court the judge told me he didn't believe my "cock and bull story" about voluntarily coming in to pay a ticket and punished me with further fines. I was shocked.
The lesson I learned is I will never voluntarily try to pay them money again.. if they want it they can come get it from me--can't be much worse than what I went through.
Then another time I drove 11 hours straight to a friend's house in Virginia and arrived in the middle of the night. The next morning, my car was stolen. I called the cops and it turned out they had stolen my car! I parked on the street in front of my friend's house, and apparently you can't park in the first spot from the corner--there was a sign that said no parking. Well some time between 3 am and 8 am some cop drove by and noticed this, and instead of ticketing me or something, he got a tow truck, broke in my car, and took it to impound. Lots of money for nothing, and I can assure you no one needed that space from 3 to 8 am that day.
On top of all that I have a grandmother who lives in a rich neighborhood where the cops have plenty of manpower and great equipment. Her house was broken into one day and about $10,000 in jewelry stolen. She knew who did it--a guy who had worked on her house months before stopped by that day to "borrow the phone". We gave the cops his name, address, workplace, phone # etc. He had a criminal record. The cops did NOT fingerprint anything ( I guess someone has to be murdered for that to happen?) and about a week later drove by his house once but he wasn't home. That was the end of their investigation. Also in college my roomate caught some punk kid who stole his bike. The police advised him not to press charges, since he wouldn't go to jail regardless. I don't know if you've ever had anything stolen from you, but I CAN'T STAND a thief!!! And when a known thief goes free, and never spends a minute in jail, but you and I do, there is something SERIOUSLY wrong with our system.
Your story, however, is truly shocking.. I heard it on a podcast awhile ago. That's much worse than my stories, and frankly I'm shocked, and it takes a hell of a lot to shock me these days. I guess you found out the cops really don't have many rules they follow. But damn, I thought hot white women always got special treatment from "the system"
Sorry for the rant
Your horrible experience just reminded me of mine. Welcome and stay away from the 5-0 !