Isn't a bail bondsman just someone who essentially loans money, probably for a fairly high fee, on the promise that you'll show up to your court date so they get paid back? If you don't like their fees or their service or the fact that they will enforce your promise to show up, you can try to borrow the money from elsewhere at a moment's notice. The bounty hunters are just enforcing the promise you made in order to be loaned the money. They're not the "bad guys". They're not the ones holding you for ransom. They're just providing a service to help people deal with the bad guys.
I would have a serious moral problem with accepting their service, making a promise to them in order to receive it, and then breaking that promise at great cost to them.