You are probably right. I have learned over the years to use weapons sparingly, I thought ostracism was a voluntaryist deterrent. Fine I'll try it your way.
The people in the NH liberty movement set Mama Ally up for a fall, she showed more faith and loyalty to the movement then it deserved, she thought they were more than talk, and when she counted on people they fell short.
When you have been fucked over as bad as she has you don't always talk or communicate "correctly" because your own defense mechanisms and friend testing radar is running at 200%, in other words you make controversial statements to figure out who you can trust when things get real. I have learned this from experience. I don't respect player haters. I hate self- righteous and judgemental people. And I won't ostracise or even openly dislike a person for anything short of a actual crime with a actual victim.
You catch more bees with honey then vinegar anyway. So why not just politely tell people you disagree with why they are mistaken? I had a beef with Ian's disrespect for fetuses and his attitude about it but I am not going to ostracise him about it. I called in and politely brought it up. I kind of sucked, but I think Mark (and M7 a couple days later) brought my point across quite well. I think Ian might be more careful next time, we will see.