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Re: I think my sister is a lesbian.
« Reply #30 on: August 08, 2009, 01:12:55 PM »


She'd be the wrong pick for a Sunday advice column in the New Hampshire Free Press paper. She's no Ann Landers or Dr. Joyce Brother's, that's for sure.



Can do an advice column in my paper anytime.
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Re: I think my sister is a lesbian.
« Reply #31 on: August 08, 2009, 01:36:53 PM »

Lesbian?  Humbug!

What one does for recreational sex is one's own business (barring any contractual obligations that say otherwise), but it is the duty of every healthy woman to have at least 2-3 children, more if possible.  That shall be so until men become more productive at baring children, or the laws of elementary arithmetic somehow change.  Failure to do so is demographic theft, no different than taxation or inflation!

We have a universe to conquer!  We'll never get off this rock we're on if people are allowed to have as few children as they want!  Heck, if current trends continue the human civilization will end up like an old woman who's fallen and she can't get up and there's no one to help her, because she wasted her life merely licking pussy instead of using it for its essential economic purpose!

  ...  or  ...  pay the childless tax instead!
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Re: I think my sister is a lesbian.
« Reply #32 on: August 08, 2009, 01:48:45 PM »

I don't see what the big deal is. Just love your sister the way you would anyway. All that should matter is your relationship with her, not her relationships with others.



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Re: I think my sister is a lesbian.
« Reply #33 on: August 08, 2009, 02:11:38 PM »

1. Most lipstick lesbians only exist in pornos... I've personally known one, but she was bisexual and was in a relationship with a good ol'boy when I knew her.

2. As soon as I start up my own underground paper I want Rillon writing the advice column.

3. Would the childless tax apply to people who've adopted children? Considering my genetics, I never want to breed.
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Re: I think my sister is a lesbian.
« Reply #34 on: August 08, 2009, 02:22:24 PM »

Yes (it's mentioned on the thread) - the childless tax would encourage adoption as well as natalism.
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Re: I think my sister is a lesbian.
« Reply #35 on: August 08, 2009, 02:35:51 PM »

1. Most lipstick lesbians only exist in pornos...

bullshit...
ellen degenerate had/has 2

portia delrossi
& the 1st one.....the little blonde
in that harrison ford castaway movie
she's actuallly straight now, i guess.

there's others...
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Re: I think my sister is a lesbian.
« Reply #36 on: August 08, 2009, 02:40:56 PM »

It doesn't matter what she is, but it matters how she perceives your acceptance.  

Springing the question is right out, because it IS none of your business.  You wouldn't want to embarrass the kid.  

You need to avoid innocent negative stereotyping of lezbos from the common male perspective, like making lewd sexual comments if two chicks are making out on television.  Example, if a good looking man and a good looking woman kissed on television, you wouldn't say "Oh god, hottt!!"  But many males do with the lezbo kiss.

So I would just avoid the subject altogether, and not offer any subtle comments like "I'm cool with that" and instead, opt for neutral ground.  Nothingness.  That is the only true path to real acceptance, as far as I'm concerned.  

People get fucked up with acceptance, and think they have to do positive things, like support rights and understand the culture, which often fails miserably.  From a perspective of neutrality, its like being accepting of a generic looking house among others, or blue sky, or who is in second place in NASCAR standings without caring about NASCAR at all.  It doesn't matter.  

Peoples senses are extremely attuned towards subtly shifted eyes, smirks, and lightly laid comments and white lies when they are "guilty" of something.  (don't get hung up on the word 'guilty', Rill)  You've gotta practice flushing all of that out of your system, and replacing it with "so what".  If she says "Indy, this is my friend Cathy", thats when it comes into play.  If things were different, you'd say "hey" and think nothing of it.  Thats the only way to be.

Eventually, it'll just be an assumed thing, nobody has to come dancing out of the closet.  Maybe one day, she'll say "...but you always knew that, its not like it was a big secret."  and you can say "yep".  But if between now and then, you attempt to broach the subject and make things awkward, you will be remembered as a difficult part of the process.  

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Re: I think my sister is a lesbian.
« Reply #37 on: August 08, 2009, 04:14:32 PM »

Was that a deliberate attempt at irony? If not, that dude is up there with Alanis Morissette for the accidental kind. :P

You're showing your age, Dyll.
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Re: I think my sister is a lesbian.
« Reply #38 on: August 08, 2009, 04:28:11 PM »

1. Most lipstick lesbians only exist in pornos...

bullshit...
ellen degenerate had/has 2

portia delrossi
& the 1st one.....the little blonde
in that harrison ford castaway movie
she's actuallly straight now, i guess.

there's others...

she's ellen degeneres, she has money

lesbian or not, money makes good looking women horny
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Re: I think my sister is a lesbian.
« Reply #39 on: August 08, 2009, 07:16:38 PM »

 So what do you think?

I think you should stay the fuck out of your sister's sexual life.  


No offense intended, Rillion, but you should really learn some tact, for fuck's sake.

Look, I agree that he should stay of her personal life. I don't think it's any of his business, unless she makes it his business by flashing her sexual orientation in front of him and the other members of the family. (If that were to happen, then it would be her fault for advertising it by making it an "in-your-face" deal.) I don't know why he's posted it, and what the reason would be, and quite honestly, I don't care why he did it. I wish he didn't post it, but I don't get what I want out of the process.

But there's a better way to express this rather than attack the guy personally. Granted, what he did was stupid. He sounds like a spring chicken on here or even in his family, I'm sure. Fuck, I'll go so far as to say that he's not exactly the sharpest tool in the shed for posting this info about his sister. But let's cut him a break, for fuck's sake.

I am not offended by his post, although I will say that what he wrote is out of pure ignorance, and that's curable. But your mean-spirited, condescending remarks are hardly setting a good example for all of us. If you get pissed with my statement about this in advance, then what were you expecting? A homecoming hug, kiss, and dance? Your Neanderthalic attempt to address this won't educate his mind but rather close it. Is that what you want? What, did you actually think that he would learn this from you? Are you fucking kidding me or what? Totally lame and pathetic here.

What he did was stupid and lame, but not an attack as if he committed some sort of vile crime. Foolish? Yes. Insensitive? Yes. Immature? Yes. But worthy of an ad hominem over it? Fuck no!!

I've noticed over time that You've posted stupid shit on this board yourself, and don't tell me you haven't, because if you do, then I'll know you're lying about it.


Get. Over. Yourself.


The day I "get. over. [myself]." is the day you find a good avatar of yourself or buy a nice outfit and take a pic of yourself wearing it to put on your profile to match that stick up your ass.
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Re: I think my sister is a lesbian.
« Reply #40 on: August 08, 2009, 08:08:17 PM »


She'd be the wrong pick for a Sunday advice column in the New Hampshire Free Press paper. She's no Ann Landers or Dr. Joyce Brother's, that's for sure.

Can do an advice column in my paper anytime.

Why thankee, Zat (and The Maiden of Time)!   :D  My inspiration comes from thirteen years of reading a far better advice column, Savage Love.

http://www.thestranger.com/seattle/SavageLove?oid=1973413  
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Re: I think my sister is a lesbian.
« Reply #41 on: August 08, 2009, 10:03:36 PM »

Why thankee, Zat (and The Maiden of Time)!   :D  My inspiration comes from thirteen years of reading a far better advice column, Savage Love.

http://www.thestranger.com/seattle/SavageLove?oid=1973413  

Just spent the last hour or so reading up on that guys archives.

Smart, incisive, and brutally honest. (and liberty leaning from what i can see)

thanks for the tip Rill.

edit: oh, and atheist, pwn
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Re: I think my sister is a lesbian.
« Reply #42 on: August 08, 2009, 11:25:38 PM »



The day I "get. over. [myself]." is the day you find a good avatar of yourself or buy a nice outfit and take a pic of yourself wearing it to put on your profile to match that stick up your ass.

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Re: I think my sister is a lesbian.
« Reply #43 on: August 09, 2009, 01:58:59 AM »

savage love is damn great.
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Re: I think my sister is a lesbian.
« Reply #44 on: August 09, 2009, 12:54:04 PM »

Just spent the last hour or so reading up on that guys archives. . . .liberty leaning from what i can see)

Well, kinda.  He wrote a very good book called "Skipping Towards Gomorrah" in which he rails against conservative moralists a lot and deliberately practices all of the seven deadly sins (except adultery, because since he's not married he can't cheat on his boyfriend).  But in the "anger" chapter he goes to a gun range in Dallas, finds out he's a very good shot, but still comes down rather on the anti-gun side.  He laments that the free speech, pro-marijuana people often aren't the same as the pro-gun people.  I wrote to him to tell him that a lot of us are, and he wrote back that he was glad to hear it.  He seems like more of a liberty-leaning liberal rather than a left-leaning libertarian, if that makes sense. 

All of his books are awesome, though....as is the Savage Love podcast.   I'm such a fangirl.   :lol:
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