Love how you keep editing your posts to soften them after I've responded, Fatcat.
I edit the majority of my posts after the fact when I think of more shit to say, its not some conspiracy to make you look like an asshole.
I stand by my point that the kind of common ideas of leopard can't change its spots, once a [blank] always a [blank], are ostensibly illustrative, but fundamentally unhelpful and empty.
I can see that it looks like I'm misrepresenting your point, what you said was more complex and subtle than how i responded, but my intention was to rail against the common sense idea that people don't really change and that a few actions can be used to define an entire person.
I'm not just talking about cheating here, the same kind of belief is common place around criminals, liars, and pretty much any kind of infraction.
I certainly don't write in a way that is endearing to friendly banter, but I don't see why you have to get so hostile with all the name calling shit, although your generally level headed so I guess I'm probably being more of an asshole than I'm aware of.