Dating Rant

[Bill Brasky]

Free will, it is a bitch.

[Ecolitan]

lol. It all rests on your clothing choice then? Wtf.

Isn't that how it always works?

yes, for those that can't do it on sexual prowess alone 

[Diogenes The Cynic]

Last week we had 2 marriages, 2 engagements from our group.

Does anyone want updates on my dating foibles, or should I let the thread die?

[alaric89]

Your thread is interesting to me because it gives insight to your culture. Interesting thread but I think you will always get the advice, "lighten up." from the general libertarian crowd here.

[libertylover]

I will go with my original advice.  Go to another large city with a significant similar population and search there for some time.  It might mean taking an sabbatical or  extended leave.  Go there get a temp job and find a matchmaker.  If you find the right woman you might stay and settle there or she might be open to moving back to your home city.   Or even possibly another section of the city you currently live in another group which your matchmaker isn't pulling from.  This is if your current search hasn't already gone city wide.

[Diogenes The Cynic]

So, I had a sit-down interview with a matchmaker last night, and I can only hope I made a favorable impression. Went to her house at night, talked about what I like to see in girls. She had a few in mind for me before I showed up, but narrowed it down to one by the end of the night.

Another matchmaker I am going through called me about a girl she had in mind. A funny thing happened during the conversation.

She gave me a call back after a long talk we had about backgrounds, education level, etc. that same night. She said that the family of the girl might recognize me if I ate by their house once. To confirm, the matchmaker asked me what my father did for a living.

I wasn't born yesterday. The family (and most likely NOT the girl) wanted to know the socioeconomic background of my family, and they pressed this sweet lady to ask a question she, in all likelihood did not want to ask.

So, what she does is think of a way to disguise the question so that I would in effect answer something else, none the wiser. She probably figures out I know why she asked, because without a pause, I answer back "what did they say my father does for a living?"

Mental fucking jujitsu!

She says "they didn't say"

So, I answer her question. Now they know, but they also know I know what they wanted to know.

[Riddler]

dude.
just go to a fucking whorehouse already.
fuck sakes.

[Turd Ferguson]

matchmakers take themselves too seriously anyway..............

[Diogenes The Cynic]

Went on a date, and did the most stereotypical thing ever. Talked in the lobby of a hotel. Pleasant girl. Hope I made a good impression.

[libertylover]

Went on a date, and did the most stereotypical thing ever. Talked in the lobby of a hotel. Pleasant girl. Hope I made a good impression.

What are you a pedophile?  Girl!?  Shouldn't you be dating women?  If she is a woman and your attitude is that women are immature or girls that will show.  A woman with any self esteem will interpret that as disrespectful and undesirable.  It is a clue to someone being a potentially abusive partner.  If you have a problem respecting women then you might want to address that first.  Because dating for a potential marriage partner can be harmed by that attitude.  And if you are dating immature women as potential marriage partners it is a big mistake.  Cause when they grow up they tend to leave or make the relationship miserable if they feel trapped by religious requirement.

[alaric89]

Can Dio ever find a orthodox Jewish heavily tattooed biker dream chick?
Stay tuned!

[Diogenes The Cynic]

Went on a date, and did the most stereotypical thing ever. Talked in the lobby of a hotel. Pleasant girl. Hope I made a good impression.

What are you a pedophile?  Girl!?  Shouldn't you be dating women?  If she is a woman and your attitude is that women are immature or girls that will show.  A woman with any self esteem will interpret that as disrespectful and undesirable.  It is a clue to someone being a potentially abusive partner.  If you have a problem respecting women then you might want to address that first.  Because dating for a potential marriage partner can be harmed by that attitude.  And if you are dating immature women as potential marriage partners it is a big mistake.  Cause when they grow up they tend to leave or make the relationship miserable if they feel trapped by religious requirement.

You're reading into the girl/woman thing a bit much.

Alaric, there is hope yet!

[Rillion]

I thought tattoos were forbidden by Judaism.

[Diogenes The Cynic]

I thought tattoos were forbidden by Judaism.

They are. Not that most women would get them in overtly exposed areas anyways. So, I would have no way of knowing if anyone I went out on a date with would have one because womenfolk tend to cover up.

[Sam Gunn (since nobody got Admiral Naismith)]

Went on a date, and did the most stereotypical thing ever. Talked in the lobby of a hotel. Pleasant girl. Hope I made a good impression.

What are you a pedophile?  Girl!?  Shouldn't you be dating women?  If she is a woman and your attitude is that women are immature or girls that will show.  A woman with any self esteem will interpret that as disrespectful and undesirable.  It is a clue to someone being a potentially abusive partner.  If you have a problem respecting women then you might want to address that first.  Because dating for a potential marriage partner can be harmed by that attitude.  And if you are dating immature women as potential marriage partners it is a big mistake.  Cause when they grow up they tend to leave or make the relationship miserable if they feel trapped by religious requirement.

You are a fucking psycho.