I've never understood the no fornication before marriage crap. All my past and current relationships have involved sex before marriage, I just see sex as an important part of a relationship, the old saying that "it develops as you get to know one another," is a load of bullshit, you get closer and learn about each others buttons more but if the "fuck me hard," ain't there at the start i've never had it make an appearence later on. I always have thought and still think that the whole no fornication thing is a mind fuck from religion, marry someone then find out you don't sexually bond with someone, well, fuck you, to bad, you're married. It's like all the religious leaders are jealous because the only pussy they get is choir boy asshole so they are out to fuck up everyone else's life. I can't have it so neither can you. You may find love by sticking to your religion and following IMHO, all it's idiotic dictates, but will you really find the one who rocks your world? I doubt it. Growing up around Mormons I saw this kind of fanatical adherence. I'm now in my 30's and of the eight mormons I have kept in touch with, only one of them is still with the person they were set up with, the rest aren't, two left the chruch and one became a devote twit who now has 3 wives (neither one his original) and nearly 2 dozen kids, fucking idiot. It will do you good to meet a lefty Jew, maybe she'll peg you like the Jew from Weeds pegged Andy Botwin.