Is it wrong to hope your child isnt gay?

[John Shaw]

Are you 12 years old or something? Grow up!

Read the updated TOS for this BBS please. You are treading thin ice.

http://bbs.freetalklive.com/general/ftl-bbs-terms-of-service-%28stickied-for-people-who-don%27t-read-before-they-post-%29/

I think he is a stand up guy, but he allows his "buddies" to over moderate and censor the forum. These "buddies" are bias when it comes to this censorship, ian knows this and yet he ignores it.

I too was suprised to see John Shaw become a mod.  

This isnt Dales first time censoring and over-moderating.

Starting to think Dale is heterophobic. It might explain his behavior.

Just read this thread. I found it pathetic how joe boner tried to make it about mysoginy, when clearly it had nothing to do with that. Ask yourself joe, WHY do you try to provoke people?

Dale needs to go to mod school. Many are unhappy with his behavior.

I knew that posting this would result in at least one insecure person making an immature response (John Shaw). Not only did he not answer the question, he made a childish threat about "strikes".

D. Chronic expressions of direct abuse toward another user will not be tolerated. Users are encouraged to debate, argue, and even insult, but repeated harassment will not be tolerated. The determination of the word “Chronic” shall left to the discretion of the moderators.

E. Flamebait and trolling should generally be kept to a minimum. It is a minor offense overall but many violators compounded make the message board a generally more stupid place to be. Egregious and chronic violations will eventually be met with warnings and possible bans. The determination of the words “Egregious” and “Chronic” shall left to the discretion of the moderators.

Seven of your 23 posts have been direct attacks against other users on this board. That's almost 1/3.

[alaric89]

http://bbs.freetalklive.com/general/if-you-want-the-bbs-to-have-more-traffic-here's-a-handy-guide/

[SeriousSplinters]

You made a list of things you didnt like, good for you. I said all those things on a sub-forum that clearly states you can say anything except racist remarks, violent threats or spam. I did none of these. Your abuse of power that i hinted at in your little copy and paste session clearly is coming to fruition. This part of the forum is "unmoderated", keep your self loathing fingers out of it and let us enjoy ourselves. Just because you dont like what i say doesnt mean i cant say it.  This is what Ian said when he made this so please stop threatening me and that "say what again motherfucker" was something out of a junior high playground. Ignore me, id appreciate that, because you clearly cant respond like an adult to adult subjects. Stop acting like a bully online.

[John Shaw]

You made a list of things you didnt like, good for you. I said all those things on a sub-forum that clearly states you can say anything except racist remarks, violent threats or spam. I did none of these. Your abuse of power that i hinted at in your little copy and paste session clearly is coming to fruition. This part of the forum is "unmoderated", keep your self loathing fingers out of it and let us enjoy ourselves. Just because you dont like what i say doesnt mean i cant say it.  This is what Ian said when he made this so please stop threatening me and that "say what again motherfucker" was something out of a junior high playground. Ignore me, id appreciate that, because you clearly cant respond like an adult to adult subjects. Stop acting like a bully online.

Actually, that thread was made before the new TOS and the new TOS supersedes it.

Stop attacking other users or you are gone. Understood? This is your last chance. There will be no further debate.

[SeriousSplinters]

Sure i understand. Just stop threatening me, Ian has repeatedly said that he doesn't like that.

[John Shaw]

Buh bye.

Jon Bon Jovi - Blaze Of Glory

[Dalebert]

Are you 12 years old or something? Grow up!

It's fairly transparent that you're trying to get a rise out of people to create drama. You're not as clever as you seem to think.

[Cognitive Dissident]

Rod Stewart - The killing of Georgie

[Robin]

Sometimes things happen in your life that are more challenging than others. I have a son who had a stroke in utero and he has health issues and needs a LOT of special attention... would I have aborted him, no. Life is a fucking challenge and I would not abort a baby if I knew it was going to be gay, just like I did not abort my amazing son who has some health issues but learns faster than both of my other children and is the most loving child you will ever meet. My son now uses a leg brace and wears an eyepatch for three hours a day, is in physical occupational and speech therapy and you know what HE GOES TO NORMAL SCHOOL WITH NORMAL KIDS. He is strong as fuck and will not take shit from anyone.

I was bullied in middle school and high school because people thought I was gay, glad my parents didn't abort me.
 

totally misread the poll or warped it in my mind for some reason............. lol i think it goes back to the santorum "would you abort a gay baby" thing................. i fail at reading and posting shit that is on topic.

[alaric89]

We must both have because I thought you won the thread and the argument.

[blackie]

Some people get abortions because the child isn't the right sex. People who are pro-choice shouldn't care if someone would abort a kid that is gay. The reason shouldn't matter to pro-choice people.

Personally I don't bother with the down's syndrome tests, and wouldn't bother with a gay test if there was one.

I don't hope my child isn't gay, but I also don't hope my child is gay.


What is a "normal school"? Does that mean the local public indoctrination center for children?

[Turd Ferguson]

Personally I don't bother with the down's syndrome tests

Thats one thing I think I would test for if I was gonna bring a kid into the world.

No offense to anyone that has DS kids of course. I just wouldn't want to be responsible for raising someone that had that. If that wouldn't bother you, well, you're a better man than I. Go for it.

I'm just too selfish to take that on I suppose.

[Cognitive Dissident]

Now we're at that fine line between "defect" and "peculiarity" (the classic definition, not colloquial.)

[alaric89]

As much as I don't like abortion, I agree with quickmike. I am not proud or anything. I have a deep respect for parents who have and care for disabled children. I guess it is up to the person having the kid to decide what is the limit, and with technology it can probably get pretty detailed in the future. Some sick fucks might even decide to want kids who are one legged or something as well. There was a case of deaf parents wanting a deaf kid I heard about.
I hate these sort of conversations.

[Robin]

What is a "normal school"? Does that mean the local public indoctrination center for children?

my definition of this is any school that is not specifically for "disabled" children, public or private. there are schools that treat special needs kids as if they are less intelligent or less "normal" than any other child, or programs in "normal" schools for "disabled" children where they sit in a room coloring and doing nothing all day... I have talked to all of my children as if they were adults since they were born and taught them all the same way while homeschooling/unschooling... I held my little guy up to the same standards and his brother and sister because I know that he will be just as smart. Unfortunately my life is at this stupid fucked up point right now where all the kiddos had to go to public school this year (they all tested above grade level when they entered and I definitely think it was the home/unschooling that put them ahead).

I do not hope that my kids are gay or not, they will be whatever they will be. I just hope they all have fulfilling happy lives and I will support them no matter who they turn out to be.