What we need here to clear up this confusion is some more 2nd-hand hearsay, and WHAT I HEARD was that Stef was giving his girl some chocolate and the mom came up angrily shouting "Don't give her chocolate! She has to go poo for chocolate!" Apparently they're using a reward system to encourage potty training.
I'd forgotten the poo thingy because now that you mention it I recall that.
Either way, I can't imagine that event being called "Emotional abuse" either way.
This is basically the sort of backlash that anyone interested in terms like Ethics and Morality are going to have to put up with, anyhow. Scrutiny goes through the roof for every tiny lapse.
As if people claiming that being moral is preferable are automatically expected to have attained moral perfection or they are total hypocrites.
People who want to play professional baseball should
always bat 1000.
People who teach other people to drive should
never get into accidents.
People who value peaceful interactions should
never get angry and express it.
Buncha crap. People are people. We occasionally fuck up. All of us. It's how we ultimately react when it's pointed out and proven to us that shows who we really are.